Welcome to Fit for Your Mind Friday, where I share an insight from me to you.

If you don't have what you want in any area of your life, this may be why.

When I have this, I'll be this. Do you think this thought? Things like when I have that flat belly,

I'll be, I don't know, happy. When I have more time, I will be fulfilled. When I have more money,

I'll be able to take those trips. When I have the result, I will be, insert whatever word you want.

Or when I have that husband, I'll finally be whatever that word is. When I have my business at this

number, I'll actually be a success. Or when I have that client, I will be complete. Now, what if your way of thinking this way is

why you actually don't have it yet? And what if that way of thinking will not ever support you

being whatever it is that you want? Now, stay with me here. Maybe you're working backwards.

Now, what if you took on starting from where you want to be?

What does that mean?

What that would mean is being first, then doing, and then having.

Now, I did not invent the B-do-have model.

Many have taught this before me, but I do practice living this way.

So how do you do this? Well,

you get in the frame of what I call forcing the vision. Now, how do you force the vision? Well, you create a space for peace and time to think. I know, I know. You might be thinking right now, well, I don't have time for that. Now, this doesn't take long. You can do it in the shower if you need to. You could do it while taking a bath while going for a walk.

Even while driving, just turn off the radio or the podcast. But create some space for peace and time to actually think.

It can be lying down, walking, driving. That part doesn't matter. But I want you to imagine that you already have what it is that you're waiting for.

What does that feel like to be the person that has that?

How do you spend your time as the person that has that?

And as that person, what are the actions that you take?

Like, what do you eat?

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