136. Chasing + Pre-mature Commitment With Men
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 16 December 2021
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of the Self Love Fix podcast, I'm talking about chasing and premature commitment and how neither of those are something you need in your love life.
Dating should be fun, but the urge to chase people that aren't meant for you and the tendency towards premature commitment can take all of that joy out of it. I want you to not only enjoy the dating process, but to magnetize the right people to you. For that reason, I'm getting real & honest about how you can eradicate these bad habits from your dating world in this episode.
Some specific topics I cover are:
- Why Do We Chase the Wrong People?
- Premature Commitment Explained
- Figuring Out What You Desire
- What You Believe is What You Get
Understanding the impact that chasing the wrong people and prematurely committing has on you & your dating life can really help you take hold of where there's room for improvement in your dating practices. From there, you can start to enjoy it all that much more!
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Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | You might also be chasing because of fear. |
| 0:02.4 | Like, you might have, this was mine. |
| 0:03.8 | I was afraid to look like a clown. |
| 0:05.4 | And that's not even a real thing. |
| 0:06.6 | This thing of like, I don't want to look like a clown. |
| 0:08.5 | So I just, you know, I want to hear back from them. |
| 0:11.5 | I don't want them to ghost me. |
| 0:12.8 | I don't want to look like a clown. |
| 0:14.1 | Because I told all my friends that they were really great. |
| 0:17.4 | They were really interesting. |
| 0:18.6 | And they were like, I've never met anybody like this before. |
| 0:21.8 | So I don't want to look like a clown. |
| 0:22.8 | So you have to respond to me so that I don't look like a clown. |
| 0:25.7 | Are you seeing how none of this has actually anything |
| 0:27.8 | to do with the other person? |
| 0:28.6 | Has everything to do with some kind of need we're trying to get met? |
| 0:31.8 | And you can't look like a clown. |
| 0:33.9 | There's nothing clownish about you. |
| 0:35.8 | If somebody who doesn't respond to you |
| 0:38.4 | or is no longer interested in you, |
| 0:39.7 | actually says nothing about you. |
| 0:40.7 | They're just, what if it's just means they're just not interested? |
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