How do I know when it's time to rebuild trust or say that it's enough?

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It's a great question. I got a great question for you, Tyler.

What's it going to take to get you out on my boat to do a little fishing?

I'll make a point to get down there. Get you to take a day of work off and do a little

fishing. Oh man, I'm a workaholic, but I'll find a way to get down there and get my kids down

there and actually show you guys what it's like to catch fish. Yeah, I really need your help.

We'll be down. I'm actually really excited about it. This is the best kind of like situation for

me because you always want to be friends with the guy who owns the boat. You never want to really

own the boat. That's true. We'll be happy to come down and use your stuff. I've been on both sides

of that and you're right. All right, Beth, welcome to the show. Thank you.

If you could give us just a little bit of background and tell us what's going on and then ask

a question. We have been married for almost 10 years. This October will be 10 years and we've

gone to counseling. We've had some betrayal. It was I found the text messages and the pictures

of stuff that were being exchanged on my husband's phone and so and I had to be the one that

confronted him with it. Of course, he was sorry, but we never really just kind of got

swept under the rug. He said sorry a few times that I married in. That was one time that he

did. For me, and I thought that I was over those incidents but I get triggered really easily

by if I see him on his phone and I'm like, who's he texting or what is he doing or at odd times

at night whenever I think like, why would you be texting someone right now whenever I'm busy

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