male laziness is underrated. You know, the apps play to male laziness. People are like, well, why does he keep talking and talking? He doesn't make a plan. Lazy. The apps play to laziness. Like in, and sometimes all someone's on the app for male, female, whatever you identify as sometimes you're only on the app to get the dope mean rush from a match. Like there are people just fooling around playing the game. They're at the casino. You know, I get that.

So the idea of like, why didn't they go on the second date? Like, you have no idea what's going on across the table. It's not worth your time to figure out. You had a good time. You'd like to go out again.

They don't want to.

Okay, you'll have a good time with someone else.

It's not,

you didn't lose anything.

You didn't have it to lose.

You didn't have it to lose. Hello and welcome to Finding Mr. Haight the podcast.

I'm Allie, back with my co-host, Erica.

Hello, hello.

Hello, hello.

Happy to see you again.

I am fresh off a fun little bachelorette weekend.

It looked very fun.

Also, you're wearing the merch and the shirts were very cute.

I was ooing and awing over them in your story.

It was a genuinely very, very nice surprise.

Also, because I need to give a shout out.

All right.

If you're going to get T-shirts, splurge the $5 extra for the Bella and Canvas shirts. They're so soft, dude. So soft. Yeah, I also just liked the design. Like it was, they weren't like a lot of Bachelor of merch, especially if you have like matching t-shirts. It's like, can be kind of cheesy. These were like very like vintagey super cute. Yeah, you would,

you would never guess it's a bachelor's shirt. It's also very, very much the vibe of the bride.

So we were like at Rondack weekend. Love it. Pretty, pretty chill bachelor's. That's awesome.

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