134: How to Be His Dream Girl Forever (Even After Marriage & Kids)

BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko

Margarita Nazarenko

Education, Health & Fitness, 821801, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.9 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

You can have the husband, the house, the kids and still lose yourself. You’ve told me so via your DMs and I hear you.

This episode is for the women who love their partner but feel unseen, unappreciated, or like everything turned into logistics.

Marriage doesn’t kill attraction but self-abandonment does.

In this video, I’ll show you how to stay feminine, magnetic, and unbothered in long-term relationships via 10 ideas/principles.

You’ll learn:

• about polarity when he’s distant or stressed

• Stop being the “manager” of the relationship and become his muse again

• Bring back desire without chasing or performing

• Keep your softness and boundaries at the same time

• Handle conflict without losing your peace

Because the real “dream girl” isn’t a phase instead she’s an energy you learn to protect for life.

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XX Margarita

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0:00.0	Okay, ladies and germs, mainly, mainly ladies and germs, mainly ladies, let's admit, no germs listen to this, do they?
0:14.9	Welcome to the Being Her podcast. I got this comment, okay? I got this comment that said something along the lines of, or not so much along the lines of, exactly this. Love your content. I am a huge fan of your podcast and Instagram, but we'd love to see a podcast specifically for married women. The married woman of the internet speaketh. Diving deep into topics relevant to us real life examples would be
0:38.8	amazing married for 12 years sometimes I struggle with hurtful things that he does or says so I jumped
0:44.6	on my Instagram with my dear friends right and I said guys who's vibing this kind of conversation
0:50.9	what do you think of this conversation? Is it different for you? Because
0:55.2	remember, remember, right now we're in the month of October and we are doing the become her
1:01.2	feminine energy reset. Okay. That's what we are talking about at the moment. And feel free to join,
1:06.8	by the way. It's on my website and in all my links in bio and in the bottom of these videos
1:12.8	but I said who else is vibing this kind of marriage content and all this stuff because I
1:18.1	had courses on it as it landed for you and people resonated they said things like he's
1:24.4	overworked and stressed how do I get get through that? So people like time management,
1:29.5	situationships, what has situation ships got to do with marriage? We'll never know. Jocelyn,
1:36.3	who asked that question. What happens when in society, when an unskilled wife wants to leave her
1:42.3	marriage? I've listened to the new rules twice.
1:44.7	It might be a third time would love more books. On that subject, if you're seeing this and if
1:50.2	you're watching this, know that yesterday I submitted my first version of the manuscript of the book
1:56.5	that is coming out in 2026. It is my second book and this one, let it be known, slaps. As in,
2:04.1	I'm not saying it because, uh, I think it's very good. I'm saying it because I've put my whole
2:08.0	into it. I've put my literal, you know, I didn't half ass it. I put my whole ass into it,
2:14.4	as I like to say, right? So it's been, I'm so deep into the concept of
2:19.8	detachment, manifestation, the whole idea of being the main character, manifesting what you
2:27.7	want in life, detaching from mental load and all of it that I am literally like sparks
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