Why are you still putting things on your credit cards that we aren't you aren't paying off every month?

I'm not going to bring all of mine to the table to piss it away.

Because that's what's happened for two years.

We've made $180,000 and we have nothing except you live with me in my world that I help facilitate and try to make your life easier.

In a way I feel sometimes like I pay a tax for you living here.

If we're just going to continue down this like road of parallel lives, if we're not going to do this and if we're not

going to become this team and like really attack life and create this like

extraordinary life.

Then I have to rethink why I'm here.

Becky's 42 years old Dustin is 36. They've been together for four years. They're not married and she moved from California to North Carolina into his house. Becky feels like they are not making progress

in their relationship. And of course money is playing a huge role in this. Now before I speak to a couple I review their

applications I look at the notes but I try not to make any judgments because I

want to hear their stories. In this case Becky was the one who filled out the

application.

She mentioned she was frustrated that he hasn't proposed, frustrated that she moved across

the country leaving all her friends and family behind, frustrated that they keep their

money separate, and he never seems to have money to improve

their house even though he has money for other things. Before we dive into this

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