I'm not a gold digger. I'm not trying to get you for all your properties and all your money. I make my own money. I'm a full-time, you know, career woman and I don't need your money.

There's no pre-nup and we're married in the next month she decides

she made a mistake, she can walk away with half or more or worse.

I don't want to be afraid to talk about money. I live in the past. There's a lot of hurtful things that got us to where we are and it revolves around money and I hold on to that.

It's just what I tell Ren whenever she asks my own my birthday, it's time with her.

I just want my wife back.

That's the rich life for me.

This switch hasn't flipped fully for me yet. Where now I can say okay let's enjoy this. You know it's been years of darkness.

They can't go on.

What would you do if you felt disconnected from your partner of nine years?

What if both of you felt alone and you both wanted more quality time together but you couldn't figure out how? Well today I'd like to introduce you to Matt who's 40 and

Ruane 38. They both live in Toronto, They have two kids. And in today's conversation

you're going to hear some shocking admissions, including a conversation they

had before they got married that has haunted their relationship ever since. I'd like to read you a

little bit from their application. We've been married for nine years and lived together

for 13 years and I have always subsidized our lifestyle. Our kids are getting older

and soon they won't be the glue to keep us together. This is a fascinating

conversation and before we get into it I want to ask you one question.

When was the last time you had a productive conversation about money with your partner?

You know, on this show you'll hear me recommend to guess that they have regular money dates.

I talk about money with my wife regularly.

Well this Saturday in my newsletter I'm going to share how to have a money date with your partner

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