Sit baby, what's the big deal? Feel what you wanna feel. Say what you wanna say. You're gonna die one day.

For example, I could kiss you just because I want to. What's different if you turn away? I'm gonna die one day.

Welcome to another edition of Ten Gentially Speaking with Dr. Christopher Ryan. Today I'm joined by Kate Bullock.

Did I pronounce that right? Bullock, who is a contributing editor, contributing writer, some sort of big shot at the Atlanta.

Big shot, that's all you need. Big shot contributing big shot at the Atlantic magazine.

And we're gonna talk about her deepest, darkest sexual fantasy because just like the rest of us she's gonna die one day.

Just before I turned this on, we were talking about fantasies and Kate said, I've never told anyone my deepest fantasy.

And I'm not gonna start today and I'm trying to get her in the carpe diem mood of this thing.

You know, so Kate, let's just start with that. What do you say?

Wait, do we, do we, does this get edited out or does it just like go all from start to finish?

Depends how much we fuck out.

You know, if we, if we can go start to finish, that makes Dustin's life a little easier. Dustin is my version of Dan Savage's tech savvy high-risk youth or at-risk tech savvy at-risk youth.

That's what he calls his like production team. I've got Dustin, who is also tech savvy.

I don't know Dustin if you're high risk at risk.

We'll talk about that someday. But let's talk about Kate. Are you tech savvy?

In the standard ways.

Are you at risk?

I'm certainly at risk for a lot of things but not in the traditional sense.

So what do you at risk for?

For sure what the preposition is.

I don't know, I haven't been thinking about it so I don't have a ready answer.

Well that's how you can tell I'm a great interviewer. When I get you with those questions you don't have a ready answer for.

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