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The Jordan Harbinger Show

1252: Her Delusions You Fled; Now She's in an ER Bed | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Business, Education, Science

4.8 β€’ 12.1K Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 5 December 2025

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

Your narcissistic wife refuses to work or leave the house. After you sought divorce, she attempted suicide and called 53 times. It's Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1252

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

  • Banter alert! If you don't want to stick around for Jordan and Gabe's stories about hangry Japanese 7-Eleven faux pas, take the bullet train to about 16 minutes and 20 seconds into the episode for preferential dooze cruise boarding!
  • Your wife has become increasingly narcissistic, manipulative, and homebound over the past five years, refusing to work or care for herself while treating you with passive-aggression and toxicity. After you filed for divorce, she attempted suicide and called you 53 times in 24 hours. How do you protect yourself now? [Thanks once again to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this!]
  • You've worked for the same company three different times and were fired once due to a background issue tied to a youthful mistake with an ex. Now they want you back with better pay, but you just accepted a six-month contract elsewhere. Do you bail on integrity or pass on long-term opportunity? [Thanks to HR professional Joanna Tate for helping us with this one!]
  • You're a leftist structural engineer who believes we're facing a fascist takeover and wants to flee the country, but your wife thinks you're overreacting to podcasts and social media. Who should you trust β€” your fear or her skepticism β€” and where do you even find reliable guidance in these polarized times?
  • Recommendation of the Week: Setting up an eSIM straight from your phone before you travel. Saily and Airalo are good options.
  • You're an introverted loner starting a new job and want to network better with colleagues without becoming best friends. You're awkward in conversations, your mind goes blank, and someone once called you boring. How do you build professional relationships when socializing drains you and you struggle to connect?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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0:47.8

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with Feedback Friday producer, My Naka-E, soaking with me in the scalding onset of life drama Gabriel

0:53.8

Mizrahi. Is that close? I feel like I added a couple extra beats. Nicely done. I love that, yeah. All right. Whatever. We're just free balling in these hot springs of WTF for sure. That was a great one. I love that one. Sitting on those little buckets in the bathhouse before we go in scrubbedubbing off the dues before we go into the bath. I'm in Japan right now, if you cannot tell from this insane conversation we're having. Yeah. Nakai, you taught me this word, Gabe. Yeah, courtesy of one of our listeners, by the way, Joan in Tokyo. Shout out to Joan for teaching me some killer slaying that I've been using in restaurants. It's making a big difference. Joan, a traditional Japanese name. What does that mean? Like, homie, kind of? Buddy, pal. Yeah. So Naka-e. Man, the nicknames get weirder and weirder the more you travel. And I guess we'll talk about that in a second here. on the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets and skills of the world's most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. And our mission is to help you become a better informed, more critical thinker. During the week, we have long-form conversations with a variety of amazing folks, war correspondence, neuroscientists,

2:05.6

astronauts, homicide investigators, tech luminaries. On Fridays, though, we share stories,

2:10.5

take listener letters, offer advice, play obnoxious soundbites, and gently don our finest yucatas in preparation for this protracted ritual of spilling the ceremonial tea.

2:15.2

Hey guys, it's producer Jase here.

2:18.2

If you want to skip Gabe and Jordan's travel stories this week,

2:21.7

just breeze past the stunning monasteries and the worst 7-Eleven offense Gabe has ever committed

2:26.1

in his life, you can jump on the bullet train and get off at the deuce cruise exit at 16 minutes

2:31.7

and 20 seconds.

2:33.6

Domo, aigato, gozaimas.as. Gabe, Ohio-gozaymas. Kon-ban-wa, my dude. For me, it's definitely not Ohio, over here. No. Whatever, I don't know what I'm talking about anymore. You're back in Japan. Comebano, my dude. I am back, son. Back in the land of obsessive detail and shutting the

2:52.9

f*** up in public. I'm so happy. Yes, your favorite soundtrack. Silence punctuated by the occasional

2:58.8

jingle of the subway doors as they close, exactly. Right. Bing bong. So are you in Kyoto now?

3:04.9

Is that correct? Yes, I'm in Kyoto and with my other Nakai, Aaron Margolis, as you know. The fucking doctor. Happy birthday to Aaron, by the way. Hell of a trip. I don't know. What are you guys doing over there? I mean, vegan Japan? It's got to be kind of an interesting... I'm having to be flexible on the veganism, unfortunately, but that's just part of the territory. In Tokyo and Kyoto, you can be

3:24.4

vegan very easily. But when you get into smaller towns and when you're traveling with a non-vegan,

3:29.4

which, as you know, I don't want to impose my veganism on everyone else, so I am being a little

3:35.0

flexible. But yeah, a little birthday trip for the good doctor. It's her first time in Japan.

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