You're listening to The Game Changer Life with Dave Anderson, the show about how to thrive, take charge of your mindset, and be unstoppable in business and all

aspects of your life. This is the Game Change Your Life podcast with Dave Anderson.

Welcome to the Game Change Your Life. I'm Dave Anderson. It's time for our Friday.

Two-minute warning edition, posted on Fridays, of course, to give you something to think about,

watch for, or do to finish your week strong, maximize your weekend. I will also include an occasional

red zone rant, but not today. I want to talk about being a game-changing spouse. You know,

living the game-change your life doesn't just mean at work. It's in all areas of life,

and you've got to be the game-changing spouse. Here's some quick thoughts on that. Some of you you're great at work. You're not so great as a spouse. You've got to make corrections or all a sudden you won't be so great at work anymore because you're going to be bringing a lot of stress there with you that starts in the house, affects you at work. Step it up. Be a game-changing spouse.

I'll just tell you, too many people want to be served.

Listen, you go first, you serve.

Here's some things you can do.

Gentlemen, you want her to act more like a lady,

then you act more like a gentleman.

Ladies, you want them to act more like a gentleman,

then you act more like a lady.

You go first. Set the right

type of example. Model the type of spouse you'd like to have. Next, make it about them every

once in a while, or most of the time, preferably. Get up in the morning and ask what I've asked

about my wife for the last three decades. What can I do to make her life better today?

That shifts your mindset to making it about someone else and getting the focus off of yourself.

Next, overlook the stupid stuff.

In fact, overlook a lot.

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