Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Why do men love cheating but hate extortion? Are public apologies abusive? And if your Black solidarity is limited to Black men, then it ain’t solidarity. This week’s hot list: #drawing while Black, Jemele Hill & ESPN, race in sports because duh that’s how it works, how to show solidarity at work, Kevin Hart and his cheating self, John Singleton is mad ashy & throws Janet Jackson under the bus, we love Tupac and acknowledge he is also ashy, #PayBlackWomen, HBCU’s & trans women, confronting white fragility, and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter & Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Check out the Black woman created and run http://podcastsincolor.com/ for the most comprehensive directory of podcasts hosted by people of color! Our friend @MelonatedMoney produces & host Queer WOC podcast, sells shea butter via her Instagram, and if you’re in Syracuse, NY she does hair! Be sure to follow her on Instagram to put your orders in! Check out artist Geneva B on Instagram @gbdee and visit her online shop https://gdbee.store/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Check out J.'s guest spot on the "Blerds" episode of Inner Hoe Uprising podcast: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2gMjn1w Apple Podcasts: http://apple.co/2gOFzs9 And J.’s recap of the experience on episode #120: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/120-masculinitytoofragile This week’s closing clip features listener @Brotheromi giving us major love on Instagram! Check it out here: https://instagram.com/p/BZEwsTWBOcs/ Libations to TK (@TastyKeish) for engineering this episode at Bondfire Radio studios! Be sure to visit www.TastyKeish.net for more information on TK, and check out our fellow independent media friends at www.BondfireRadio.com for more dope programming. Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com