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Tea with Queen and J.

#120 #MasculinityTooFragile

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.8765 Ratings

🗓️ 12 September 2017

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… How lack of representation can lead to silencing valid critiques of Black business, white guilt and what to do with it, and coddling male fragility… let’s stop that. This week’s hot list: Black owned body care companies! Blerd masculinity, J. confronts misogyny head on and it makes a lot of people uncomfortable, do we hold women to a higher standard (yes, and it’s washed), a trash publication pulls a christopher columbus on Hennypalooza, the makeup industry – colorism, privilege and holding Black owned businesses accountable, natural disasters and elitism in survival, and white guilt, allyship, and gtfoh. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter & Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Check out the Black woman owned blog/brand Melanin & Sustainable Style: https://melaninass.com/ Black woman owned feminine care brands: https://thehoneypot.co/ http://nenefemhealth.com/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Check out J.'s guest spot on the "Blerds" episode of Inner Hoe Uprising podcast: Soundcloud: http://bit.ly/2gMjn1w Apple Podcasts: http://apple.co/2gOFzs9 We're also on the latest episode of Three Fifs Podcast "Afropunk and Niche Negroes" Listen: buff.ly/2wUFDfq This week’s closing clip features tennis champion Sloane Stephens speaking with reporters after her US Open win: https://twitter.com/ryvlin/status/906781880590139392 Libations to @Conscious for engineering this episode at Bondfire Radio! Be sure to check out www.Bondfireradio.com for more dope programming. Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, how lack of representation can lead to silencing valid critiques of black business, white guilt and what to do with it, and coddling male fragility is whack.

0:10.6

Let's stop it.

0:11.4

It's Tea with Queen and Jay people. Drink up. T with tweeter J. T with tweeter J. Hello.

0:33.3

You ready?

0:38.5

Yeah, I don't know why when you said hello, I was thinking Ella, Ella, Ella, eh, eh, eh. Oh, wow, that was a throwback. Threwback. It's the first time Rihanna changed her hair. Oh. When she had the short haircut? That was when she revealed it. Yeah, and I had that hair and everyone, I did that hair first, and then that video came out. And everyone was like, oh, you got Rianna's hair? I had i have hair beef a lot because i that was me and erika baddoo for a long time we always had

0:59.6

the hair beef i had the headwraps then she came out then i went bald then she went bald as a whole

1:05.3

like thing with us you know what can you do we're unsung heroes we are we? We're unsung heroes. We are.

1:11.6

We are.

1:13.0

Speaking of unsung heroes, welcome to T with Queen and Jay podcast.

1:18.2

Yes.

1:19.0

We are two women's race nerds talking shit over tea.

1:23.1

I'm Queen.

1:23.7

I'm Jay.

1:24.4

And this is Tea with Queen and Jay.

1:27.6

Ew. Ew.

1:33.5

Welcome to the show.

1:35.3

Thanks for fucking listening.

1:36.9

Yes, we're glad you're here again.

1:38.5

We're glad you're here to help us dismantle white supremacist patriarchal capitalism.

1:44.1

We do that shit every week.

1:45.3

Do that every week.

1:46.1

It's fucking exciting.

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