#12: When Trauma Shuts You Down in Relationships
Black Girls Heal
Shena Lashey
4.8 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 22 July 2019
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
Unresolved trauma gets stuck in your body and not only will affect you individually (mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically), but also in your relationships as well.
In this episode, we dig into how it may look.
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| 0:00.0 | My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there |
| 0:20.0 | is just to bring it out. This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever |
| 0:26.4 | means necessary. |
| 0:29.7 | Welcome to the Black Girls Hill podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and |
| 0:34.4 | resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and |
| 0:38.5 | then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns and |
| 0:44.8 | grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nel Lache, Love Edition coach and Trauma Specialist. |
| 0:50.3 | Let's begin. |
| 0:52.3 | Thanks for listening to Let's begin. |
| 0:56.0 | Thanks for listening to this week's podcast. Before we get started, let's take a small break to say thank you to this week's sponsors. |
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| 1:42.0 | Hello and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. This week we are going to talk about how our trauma shuts us down, how it affects us in our relationships. |
| 1:55.9 | And so it is really important that we understand this if we want to help heal, change, |
| 2:01.9 | redeem, restore our relationships and how we show up in our relationships |
| 2:09.1 | because we are the part that we can control, we are the part that we can control we are the part that we have ownership and |
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