119: Should You Act As If...or Not?
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 26 April 2018
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
You've all heard the phrase "fake it 'til you make it," but lately there's been a lot of talk that by doing so you're being inauthentic. Why act like something we're not and be who we really are in the moment? Well, I beg to differ and am a huge supporter of acting as if. Here's my reasoning…
"When you act as if, you are literally taking the actions that the person you want to become is already taking."
Acting as if is THE shortcut to getting you where you want to be. It also helps attract the right people and opportunities into your life and business. So yes, fake it 'til you make and act as if because what you're portraying is already in you, you're just nudging it to come out a little sooner. It doesn't change you at the core.
Tough-love truth, nobody wants to do business with someone who isn't already acting as though their product is the biggest thing since sliced bread – unless YOU are acting as though it is. It's not inauthentic, it's actually more authentic because you truly believe in what you're doing.
"Acting as if is just getting into the energy of the person who's already there."
It's all about showing yourself (and often others) who you're about to become – even though you're not quite there yet. Because I believe that someday it's that energy that will help you become who you were meant to become. And why not take that shortcut to get there just a little quicker?
What ways will you start "acting as if" this week to help propel your success forward?
In This Episode We Talk about:
- The idea of "fake it 'til you make it" and whether or not it's unauthentic
- Acting as if you're already who you want to become
- Getting into the energy of the person who's already there
Resources:
A Tribe Called Bliss Book Tour
See where Lori is headed and get tickets at ATribeCalledBliss.com
For more stories and tips on becoming unapologetically wealthy, follow me @Chriswharder on Instagram and check out fortheloveofmoney.com.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome everybody this is for the love of money where we are making you |
| 0:08.6 | unapologetic about your pursuit of success by sharing the tools, tips, and stories of those who have already made it. |
| 0:16.5 | My name is Chris Harder, and each week I will bring you incredible guests |
| 0:21.2 | in order to prove that when good people make good money they do great things. |
| 0:36.1 | Hey everyone welcome back to another mini episode of for the love of money episodes that I like to call my two cents and today we are going to finally weigh |
| 0:40.3 | in on is it authentic or not to act as if. You know another way that |
| 0:46.7 | you typically hear people talk about this is fake it till you make it and |
| 0:50.1 | there's two camps on this there's the camp that says well of course that's how you get in the energy of becoming who you want to become. |
| 0:57.0 | And then there's the other camp that says that's totally inauthentic, that's totally fake, why don't you just be who you are in the moment and that's what will bring you success. |
| 1:06.0 | So we are going to do a deep dive on that in a couple of seconds, but before we do, I want to remind you that my wife's incredible book to her, |
| 1:12.0 | for her awesome new book called |
| 1:13.8 | a tribe called Bliss which is exactly the new rules around women making |
| 1:19.0 | relationships and having friendships and lifting each other up and creating and |
| 1:22.4 | cultivating tribe the book tour is almost |
| 1:24.9 | sold out. |
| 1:25.9 | And so if you live anywhere near LA, New York, Boston, Minneapolis, Toronto, I mean |
| 1:32.1 | anywhere near those locations. |
| 1:33.7 | You definitely want to go snap up your ticket right now. |
| 1:36.8 | Go to a tribe called Bliss.com, scroll down to where the events are, |
| 1:42.4 | click on the city closest to you and make sure you secure your ticket. |
| 1:46.0 | Because when you do, don't forget, not only are you going to get a couple hours worth of an awesome lecture by Lori, |
| 1:52.0 | but you're also going to get a chance to get your book signed by her get a |
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