Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.

Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.

She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.

Hey guys, so the topic of this episode is love hurts is a myth and you're

like how is that a myth of course love hurts and especially if you're listening to this podcast right now you may be feeling a little heartbroken.

So you're probably like, okay, I really got to see what she's going to say in this episode because

that makes no sense. So yeah when people get their hearts broken they

often say things like I never want to love again, it hurts too much, love sucks.

I just want to be by myself because I never want to go through this ever again.

And this is where I need to give you a fresh perspective.

Love actually doesn't hurt at all. Love makes us feel good, like the world is a

better place. It boosts our spirits and energy. It makes us feel like we can conquer anything, and it can give

new meaning to our lives, like love is essentially what heals us.

The things that get confused with love are things like betrayal, rejection, jealousy,

and loneliness. These things are what hurts and they stem from being with the wrong

person and or in a relationship that is not serving you.

If you're in a situation where you're in pain all the time,

crying, depressed, anxious, stressed because someone's always cheating on you or lying to you, that is not

love. You think love hurts because you are in a bad relationship. If you were in a loving

relationship you would feel positive, supported, happy, upbeat, comforted, like you can depend on someone, like someone has your back, like you're a team.

So do you see what I'm saying here?

Love is not what causes you pain. I'll give you another

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