Happy Christmas, Tidies. Oh my God. Merry Christmas. The best time of the year. So it's

giving season. So we are going to give you guys some never heard before dilemmas. Enjoy. Love you.

Hey girls. Love the pod. I've been seeing a guy for three months. We click have the same

values, loads of laughs and real chemistry. He told me he's a slow burner and I'm the first

girl he's properly dated since his ex. We're both 31 and even talk joke about having kids one day.

But then he drunkenly admitted he's not sure relationships work. He loves his freedom and doesn't know if he can be monogamous. Red flag, red flag, walk away now, walk away. I thought that meant it would stay casual until a few days later he introduced me to his mom, his friends, pick me up from the airport and gave me a key to his place. What the hell is going on? Love Bobber, Love Bomber, Love, Blumber, so which is it? Does he like me but is scared? Or is he stringing me along and he's for going to change? Should I stick it out or walk away? Listen, this calls for a serious conversation and I'm afraid this sounds about it. Love Bombery. Why are you saying that you're not sure that relationships work and that you don't believe in monogamy? You are not the person I want to be with then. I'm not going to be the girl to try and change your mind. And that is like one of the things that he will then throw back in your face. I did warn you and I did say. 100%. Oh, sorry I cheated. Yeah, but I told you don't believe monogamy. Yeah. It's like a weird walk away now.

It's not going on. warn you, I did say. 100%. Oh, sorry I cheated. Yeah, but I told you don't believe in monogamy. Yeah.

It's like a weird walk away now.

It's not good.

I think like you either give him an ultimatum and be like, look, listen, you said this when you're drunk. Well, you just really drunk and like chatting absolutely bris. Or is there any truth to it? Because if there is any truth to it, and any truth, I mean, I can't be in a relationship with somebody who doesn't believe in monogamy.

I really just don't I think it's recipe disaster yeah

listen we're very we feel very stronger on this one I think it's very clear there's no mucky

water for me and the mixed signals that are so extreme like I don't do monogamy relationships don't

work here's a fucking key you meet my mom you meet my best friends you could also I don't love the best friends

be like look at a comment like oh you're the first girl I feel connected to her ex so love bombing

and like he said that to every fucking girl he's spoken to like yeah and who's your ex because I need

to stalk her now you know what mean? Now all I'm thinking about

is how much you love the ex. Name, last name and occupation. Yeah. You know what? If,

if you feel like you can and you're hanging out, like in a casual setting with the friends,

you can even say in front of him, be like, so doesn't like relationships. What do you guys

think of that and doesn't believe in monogamy? Like, is that true?

Or like, in a jokey way, just ask in front of him. So it's light and be like, what? Or like, I don't know. So you try and gauge something from the friends because he's clearly bullshitting you. Like, he'll just tell you what you want to hear in the moment. He sounds like Love Bom 101. on. You know what this would be for me right i would this is the wrong

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