118 – Being the Adult in the Therapy Room
Counselling Tutor podcast
Kenneth Kelly
4.8 • 657 Ratings
🗓️ 22 June 2019
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
In episode 118 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, Ken Kelly and Rory Lees-Oakes describe the importance of the counsellor ensuring that they are being the adult in the therapy room. In 'Practice Matters', Rory talks about different types of family structures, and considerations in working with clients in this respect. Last but not least, the presenters look at helicopter skills in the therapy room.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Counseling Tutor podcast, the must listen to podcast for students of |
| 0:07.6 | counseling and psychotherapy. Here are your hosts, Rory Lee's Oaks and Ken Kelly. |
| 0:15.7 | Hello, I'm Rory and with me, as always, is Ken. How are you, Ken? |
| 0:19.6 | Exceptionally well, glad to be here. This is episode 118 of the counselling tutor podcast and a great |
| 0:26.4 | episode packed with useful information, whether you're a qualified therapist or a student. |
| 0:32.3 | There is something here for you. We're going to start off with our first topic and that is being |
| 0:37.2 | the adult in the therapy |
| 0:39.4 | room. Really interesting topic there and something we need to be mindful of as therapists. And then |
| 0:44.2 | we go into a special section that we call practice matters. And today, Rory, you're going to be |
| 0:49.1 | covering the different forms of families. And it's, I guess, easier to think that a family is a family. |
| 0:54.3 | I know what a family is, but there are so many differing forms. |
| 0:57.7 | Absolutely. |
| 0:58.4 | And I'm going to be talking about different forms of families. |
| 1:00.7 | And also, what you might have to think about in particular family structures. |
| 1:06.2 | And we're going to be ending episode 118 by speaking about helicopter skills. |
| 1:12.6 | Now, this is not flying a helicopter. |
| 1:14.9 | This is not having a helicopter in the corner of your therapy room. |
| 1:18.6 | This is something completely different and something that every therapist should be practicing. |
| 1:23.2 | So we'll leave that there and we will be approaching it. |
| 1:26.0 | But we're going to kick off with our first |
| 1:27.9 | topic, and that is being the adult in the therapy room. Yes, there's a great phrase that the |
| 1:34.4 | adult is parent to the child. It was coined by Keith Tudor, who is a well-respected author, |
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