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Relationship Advice

116: Affair Proof Your Relationship

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 October 2017

⏱️ 64 minutes

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Summary

The incidence of infidelity in the United States is greater than 50%. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that we're doing something wrong. A huge part of preventing infidelity is communication with your partner. For example, have you communicated your deepest sexual desires to your partner without fear of judgement? Today's show will outline the steps to share feelings like this and to affair proof your relationship. In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to come to terms with the fact that we are all sexual beings, and will find people other than our partner attractive. Avoiding the irrational belief in your relationship that, "we love each other and therefore will never stray." Facing your own fears of your partner being attracted to someone else. Learn to know the person you love on the deepest level possible. How to talk about these deep emotional feelings with your partner. Why the more you talk about your weaknesses, the stronger you and your relationship will become. And much more! Steven Ing is reframing an important conversation in society one about the intelligent management of human sexuality. He is a sought-after trainer, speaker and therapist, bringing nearly three decades of experience to his audiences and clients. His book, We're All Like This" (2015, Giant Publishing), is used as a text in Human Sexuality classes in university classrooms. Download this episode's freebie here! Full Show Notes at http://idopodcast.com/116 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Do you struggle with communicating your desires with your partner? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. FindYourTrainer.com: Today’s show is sponsored by FindYourTrainer.com, America’s largest personal trainer network that matches you with your perfect personal trainer. Train anywhere, anytime. Get $50 off your first session when you visit FindYourTrainer.com/IDO with Promo Code: IDo If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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And Take me to the place in the middle of the sun.

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Take me to the plates in the middle of the sun. What's going on, what's going on,

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what's going on, guys?

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What's going on, guys?

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Welcome to I do podcast.

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Thank you for joining us.

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We are coming to you, not live.

0:38.0

I always feel like I want to say, we're coming to you live, like radio, but we are podcasting. We are coming to you live like radio but we are podcasting we are coming to you from

0:45.2

San Diego we're back down here in San Diego after having been gone since

0:51.0

February yeah Feels good. Yeah.

0:55.0

Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's not a terrible place. It's like average temperatures are in the 70s and we are here back on the beach as we get

1:05.2

ready to head to Costa Rica at the end of the month we'll be packing up all our

1:10.0

stuff really just trying to get rid of most of our stuff.

1:14.0

We have a storage unit filled with a two bedroom apartment pretty much, so we will be spending

1:20.3

the next month trying to sell all of our stuff.

1:22.3

Yeah, all stuff we don't really need. spending the next month trying to sell all of our stuff.

1:22.6

Yeah, all stuff we don't really need.

1:25.0

I'm actually looking forward to it because basically whatever we don't bring to Costa Rica

1:31.2

will just be, besides like a few of Stella's little things and

1:36.4

mementos that will probably send the family to keep in storage that'll be it so

1:41.5

we're downsizing getting rid of all of our junk.

1:44.6

We're full nomads at the moment.

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