Hey everyone, in today's episode, I'm going to share highlights from my recent debate with OnlyFans pornographer Farha Khalidi. This debate was hosted in person on the whatever podcast. And if you want to help us cover the costs of traveling to venues like this, then please support us at Trenthorn podcast.com. And now, here's some highlights from my debate with Farha. Because despite an increasingly in vogue, anti-feminist zeitgeist, Zykeyes, I don't believe that

sex grounded in love or marriage is inherently more respectful or self-actualizing for women than sex grounded in lust or transaction. Sex grounded in love is often entitled. A man named Randy Vannett repeatedly essayed his 50-year-old partner while she was passed on on pain meds battling throat cancer. He told her about this, and she told him this makes her feel violated, but he said it's to make up for the times that her pain got in the way of them having sex. So she wired up a confession out of him and reported him to the police where he confessed it again. Despite this, the police told Randy that he's done nothing wrong and declined to prosecute. Your husband is the man in your life most likely to rape you. Well, I had a more informal opening statement that I'd like to go through. First, I would like to say, I'm really glad that you're here. I think that is a very beautiful engagement ring that you have on, by the way. So congrats to that. You want to show it to the camera? It's super. That is a nice that's very pretty pretty good opening statement. It's like, you're a hypocrite. No, I'm just saying that it's a, it's a very, it's a very shocking thing to hear. It reminds me, and like I said, this is a bit more informal. We can go back and forth. It's like when there are some anti-feminist women who sit in front of me and talk about how horrible women are.

And I'm like, well, you're a woman. This is the weirdest thing ever. So it's just super duper

weird for me to hear like, I think at one point. And I, well, I'll include some of this.

We'll go back and forth. What I want to say is that I believe that we can have virtue.

We can have people.

There are people who live virtue to love is to will the good.

And there are good people.

There are bad people, but we need good people in order to keep the bad people in check.

And I think, honestly, if we practice virtue and discipline as a society, we understand that each of us is made in the image of likeness of God, then we can reach our full human flourishing, our full potential as human beings.

And so what I want to argue today is that the root of society, the foundation of society, I think there's oftentimes two errors here.

Some will say that it is,

that it is the individual, and others will say that it is the, it's just the country or the state.

But I believe that the root of society is the family, because it is through the family that we get more people.

But I do think it's just, it's a baffling thing to see someone,

and congrats wanting to enter into marriage,

but could speak about the idea of sex being grounded in love,

being no better than sex not being grounded in love.

That's like two plus two equals five to me.

That's just a wild thing. What I heard in

that opening was really just like, I feel like, yes, there's bad things, but we could harden our

hearts so that the bad things never hurt us or live in virtue and face the bad things head on

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