I'm Havela Cunnington and this is Havela's podcast.

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Let's jump into this.

We're talking about giving feedback that's brain-friendly.

Instead of just giving it because we're being courageous and we're saying everything

we want to say and it's too bad you're going to be a grown-up and receive what I'm saying.

Actually giving feedback to someone and allowing their brain to stay in a peaceful place of

discovery to hear what you're saying, rather than just hear it and doing it because they

have to.

The human brain will definitely put more weight into threat than they will reward.

So however we're talking to somebody, if it's negative or positive, we're giving positive

feedback and negative feedback, their brain is going to trigger on the negative.

So how we set it up is very important whether it's even meant to be negative.

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