Good morning, baby, love. Today we are talking about the glop blueprint, how to go from anxious to irresistible. I was a fellow anxiously attached girlie. I was a felt like, listen, life was painful. When you're

always putting your value and your self-soothing into somebody else's hands, it is painful. It is

not fun. So these are the 10 steps to transform your energy, presence and power today.

Where am I, by the way, I am outside a community center and I'm about to become what?

Ladies and Germs? I'm about to become Australian.

I am British. I'm Russian born, but I am British.

That's how I grew up. And now I'm about to become an Aussie.

So cheers to that. We love that. So my kids are occupied right now for a few hours, and this is

the time we have to teach you how to transform your life. This is serious. I am, the more

content I make, the more I hone into what it is exactly that my message is.

Life is painful for someone who has anxious attachment. There is secure attachment for 50% of us.

That's a person who has internal self-validation. He can see when people are not kind to him and he can walk away.

Us anxiously attached people, or formally,

in my case, we put our self-worth into other people's hands if they reply, where did they go,

feeling like we need to track them. But it is a self-fulfilling prophecy that if you,

if you scratch that itch of checking their phone, making sure they

text you back to feel better about yourself and all those things, then it reinforces in your mind

that you need that stimulus in order to feel good and that is not how you can live your life. So

these are the 10 things I've curated. Number one, stop seeking closure from other people and give it to yourself.

Me, I have been cheated on.

I don't even remember what that feels like because it was quite a long time ago.

But all I wanted to know at the time is why, am I not good enough?

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