I've had over 44,732 female clients, and here are the lessons that I've learned from

helping these beautiful women attract love.

Number one is love is an emotion and emotions are irrational. Have you ever had a friend who is

dating an absolute freaking psychopath? And if not, it's likely that you are the friend that's dating the psychopath.

But when this happens, I found it's really difficult to coach someone out of that situation

using a rational approach.

I used to do that back when I was kind of a rookie, and it was kind of like banging my head

against the wall trying to get someone to change.

So I found the only way to help someone change their decisions in their love life is to relate their situation to their emotional state and being aware of how the guy that they're with makes them feel and being really intentional about surrounding yourself with people that bring you positive emotions rather than the people who make you feel horrible.

Number two is when we blame our geography for our love life issues, it's almost always a different, deeper issue. Adam, there are just no good guys in my city. Okay, so where do you live? I live in Manhattan. I kid you not, I once had a client, and I'm sorry if you're watching, you're the client. You'll laugh that I'm calling you out here. But she legitimately told me that she dated every single guy in Manhattan. So when she told me this, I took out the calculator and I looked it up and there's 1.6 million people in Manhattan proper. Of those people, 60% of them are single. So then we get down to 960,000 people, divide that by two two and that gives me 480,000 single men. So she went on a date with a new guy every single day. It would

take her 1,300 years to go through every single single guy in Manhattan. Definitely not the

problem. The math checks out. Long story short, if you have a scarcity mindset, then you're going

to have a scarcity of options.

Keep an abundance mentality and you'll have an abundance of options. Number three is that feminine

energy is not weak energy. Look, when you're getting out there in dating, there's both

masculine and feminine energy and men and women both have masculine and feminine energy. But

if you are looking to attract a more masculine guy,

which most of our clients are, then it's important to get out there and start dating by leaning

into your feminine energy because that is what builds a lot of tension between the two of you.

That's what builds attraction between the sexes. Feminine energy is all about

just leaning back and letting him do the work. And here's the thing. A lot of my clients who are

extremely dominant in the workplace, they're extremely successful, they have this idea

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