108. The Truth About Men And Monogamy | Ep. 108

Nice & Neat The Podcast

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Society & Culture

4.8 • 876 Ratings

🗓️ 5 April 2024

⏱️ 86 minutes

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"The Truth About Men And Monogamy" NEW EPISODE of @niceandneatthepodcast available on all streaming platforms‼️ (EP. 108) The Truth About Men And Monogamy (EP. 108) What up family! In today’s episode, we'll be discussing a topic that has been a source of controversy and interest for many years - monogamy. Why is it so hard for men to be monogamous? It's a question that has been debated by experts, podcasters and individuals alike. Firstly, let's define what monogamy means. Monogamy refers to being in a committed, romantic relationship with one person at a time. It also involves being sexually exclusive with that one person. However, in today's society, we often see people struggling to stay monogamous. Infidelity, whether emotional or physical, seems to be on the rise. One reason for this could be the pressure and expectations put on individuals by society. We are bombarded with images and messages glamorizing casual relationships and hook-ups. The idea of settling down with one person for the rest of our lives can feel restricting and unappealing to some. Furthermore, with social media and dating apps making it easier to connect with people, the temptation to explore other options outside of a monogamous relationship can be strong. Another factor could be a lack of communication and understanding within the relationship. People often enter into monogamous relationships without fully understanding what it entails and what is expected of them. Listen and watch this episode as we uncover some of the difficulties people have with being monogamous. Thanks for watching, and remember to hit that like button and subscribe for more thought-provoking content JOIN US PATREON‼️ https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator (https://www.patreon.com/niceandneat?utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator) Thank you for joining us! Make sure to leave a comment if you enjoyed this episode! Also, If you’re enjoying this episode please do us a favor and share with your friends and family! 🙏🏾 PROMOTE WITH US! https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051 (https://form.jotform.com/233415452438051) CONTACT US! niceandneatthepodcast@gmail.com @duke @omar.bolden @just.Jalon Intro song: @xaroc__ - Pledge of Allegiance Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Why do men struggle with monogamous relationships? What is it that they're doing wrong?
0:08.0	Or even if you want to bring it in, what is it that their partner is doing wrong? That's not allowing them to be monogamous.
0:15.0	So we've been baked into a culture of conquest of women. Okay. So these are things that, you know, habit is
0:25.4	powerful. And habit becomes who you are. And the reason we, so many of us struggle with
0:31.6	monogamy and women struggle too, but just I don't, not, not at the same rate is because
0:36.4	women have to deal with the shame. People ask us all the time, how do you do it? Right. As if we are some sort of supernatural beings. How do you stay monogamous to your partner? How do you stay faithful? How do you do it? What do you do? Right? And I entertain the conversation, even though I understand that at the end of the day it's a desire that you got to have yourself, it's nothing that I could just tell you. And you just be like, wow, that makes so much sense. I'm going to start being faithful. Like, it just doesn't work like that. I'm Simeon Pando. I'm Melvin'Hare. Hey, I'm Melvin Greg. This is another episode of Nice and Me.
1:12.6	I'm Duke.
1:13.6	I'm Omar.
1:14.6	I'm Jalyn.
1:15.6	Yes, good.
1:16.6	Welcome back to another episode.
1:17.6	I don't think being a doer is a masculine thing.
1:20.6	I feel like that is, because you could be a doer within spaces that somebody might deem feminine and they wouldn't say you're masculine.
1:30.5	Right.
1:30.8	So when people talk about masculine, are they really just talking about the energy that a woman is bringing to a conversation or an environment?
1:39.9	I think so.
1:41.4	I don't really think it's the act.
1:43.1	I think it's energy. It's the energy. For instance, I don't really think it's the act. I think it's energy.
1:44.2	It's the energy.
1:45.1	For instance, I don't think,
1:46.7	I don't think being successful is masculine.
1:50.8	No.
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