105. Conversation with a Client: Madeline from San Francisco

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 18 July 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Suzanne talks with former client Madeline about the strategies she learned in coaching with Suzanne that turned her relationship around.

IN THIS EPISODE:

4:00 The differences between living in the Midwest and living on the West Coast

7:20 Madeline tells her story about how she came to find Suzanne after being called “too alpha”

13:30 Men like “easy.” Madeline talks about how she learned to not have her way all the time and how it created peace in her relationship

17:00 The power of mantras

20:35 Timing is everything when it comes to talking to your man. Talk less, get more!

22:50 Why silence works so well

24:40 How to turn a “nag” into a statement of desire and WHY it works

32:45 If you move with the biological tide, you will have fewer problems in your relationship

36:25 If you want to get married and that is your goal, there is a way to get there

37:10 Being promiscuous doesn't prove you're empowered

46:50 Look inward, not outward, to solve problems

Transcript

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0:00.0	This will surprise no one who listens to this show, but America is single.
0:06.0	It's divorced, undercommitted, and hopelessly out of touch with how to build a relationship that lasts.
0:12.2	Women in particular are groomed for a life centered on career and on being fiercely independent,
0:17.7	as though marriage and family were a nice idea or a possible accompaniment to an otherwise
0:22.5	satisfying life. But if Flying Solo is so great, why are online dating sites a billion-dollar industry
0:31.2	replete with clients looking to get hitched? In my new book, How to Get Hitched and Stay Hitched, which is available now for pre-order,
0:41.0	women get a much-needed detox from the cultural narratives they've absorbed about men, sex, love,
0:46.7	marriage, work, and family.
0:49.9	Modern women don't need any more help in the professional sphere.
0:53.4	They have that in spades.
0:55.4	What they don't have is guidance in love and life.
1:00.0	How to get hitched is not about finding a husband per se,
1:03.0	but about how to map out a life that works in every sphere, including marriage and children.
1:08.3	It offers women a new roadmap with specific countercultural
1:12.0	guidelines that will help them be successful in this domain. How to get hitched is the
1:16.8	antidote women need to reject the lies they've been fed by our culture. It's about what you really
1:21.6	want versus what you've been told you should want and about what is true of men in marriage
1:25.7	versus what you've been told is true.
1:33.5	Get ready. This book will rock your world. Just go to how to get hitched.net and you'll find all the information you need there. Again, that's how to get hitched.net. And now on with the show.
1:55.4	Okay. with the show. From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal
1:59.3	in value, but wildly different by nature.
2:01.6	Join us here every week when we challenge the culture's hugely flawed narratives about men, women, sex, and love.
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