104: How to Invite Criticism without Hating Yourself | Feedback Friday
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
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🗓️ 4 October 2018
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!
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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:- Do the re-engagement scripts we recommend in Six-Minute Networking ever grow stale? Don't people notice when they receive the same lines every year to stay in touch?
- Is there a way to tame the emotional outbursts you have whenever you receive criticism -- even when it's constructive and warranted?
- How should you handle that old school friend who always says "yes" to a coffee but never, ever buys you one back?
- How do you look for another job while still employed when your current job leaves you so depressed, anxious, and emotionally drained?
- Is it reasonable to suspect that the person who left someone else to be with you might now be cheating on you with someone else?
- How can you help your star employee stop overextending personal care toward clients when you know she's already stressed out with her own problems that should be addressed?
- Even though it mathematically makes sense to invest when returns are higher than the interest rate on the debt you're trying to pay off, is it the right move?
- What can you do to make the most of an awkward intro to someone at the top of your field so you can turn it into a solid new professional connection?
- Tank's Good News of the Week: The Crayon Initiative
- Quick shoutouts to Tony Levero and his spicy Latina wife, and American Dream University!
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- Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.
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| 0:30.0 | Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason DeFilippo. |
| 0:35.0 | Here on the Jordan Harbinger show, we love having conversations with our fascinating guests. |
| 0:40.0 | And this week we had Chase Hughes talking about authority and influence. He's a badass. He works with the military, civilians, intelligence agencies and other folks. |
| 0:48.0 | Black Hat and White Hat, I'm sure. Or I should just say in the shadows and also in the public eye. |
| 0:55.0 | And we're going to be working together pretty soon on some of this stuff, which is pretty cool. He talks a lot about authority, influence persuasion, verbal and nonverbal communication. |
| 1:03.0 | Just really always a hugely popular guest on the show. And we had Cosmarte talking about, well, let's just say he set up the Uber of cocaine back before there was Uber. |
| 1:15.0 | And he's going to talk all about what he learned from doing that and going to prison and coming out and starting a new business. |
| 1:21.0 | And that is on the other side of the law, the right side of the law, if you will. |
| 1:25.0 | So if you miss those, highly recommend you go and check those out. Our primary mission, of course, is to pass along our guests and our experiences and insights along to you. |
| 1:34.0 | In other words, the real purpose of the show is to have conversations directly with you. And that's what we're going to do today here on Feedback Friday. |
| 1:41.0 | You can reach us Friday at Jordan Harbinger dot com. Try to keep them concise. If you can't, it really does increase the chance your question will get answered on the air. |
| 1:49.0 | Now, Jason, we were rolling out our advanced human dynamics live event this past week. And we had, it's funny. I had all these notes for like a week from now, a month from now, how to sell out the event, what we're going to do and all this stuff. |
| 2:02.0 | We sold the event out in three hours, or I think it might have even been less than that from one email that we sent to one segment of our list. |
| 2:11.0 | So I guess maybe we slightly underestimated the interests you all had in coming to our live event. We literally ran out of room and then we created a waiting list that afternoon that was the same size as the event attendee list. |
| 2:25.0 | And I think it blew through that, you know, the next day. So really awesome to be seeing how interested you all are in our advanced human dynamics stuff our live events and of course our level one class, which is free and online. |
| 2:37.0 | People need to be on our newsletter to be notified or doing the level one course to be notified. So if you go to Jordan Harbinger dot com slash level one or advanced human dynamics dot com slash level one, you can get it in on that. |
| 2:49.0 | Also, I'm going to be in Australia October 18th through 20th in Brisbane at the We are podcast conference. That's a podcast conference in Australia in Brisbane. |
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