10 Ways You Know It Is Time To Leave Your Relationship Or Job & 10 Questions To Help You Make Your Decision

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Business

4.7 • 30.5K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2021

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Finding the reason to let go and move on is never because of a simple reason. It is often a result of a series of stressful events, unreasonable situations, and in some cases, traumatic experiences that make us anxious. These unpleasant circumstances push us to the end and would make us question ourselves if it’s still worth staying or is it finally time to move on. Or, if you’re mentally and emotionally prepared to leave it all behind and restart your life somewhere else. In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty talks about ten questions we should ask before we decide to end a relationship or leave our job, and what we can do to prepare for when we’re ready to leave. Key Takeaways: 01:12 Are you thinking of finally leaving or letting go? 05:06 Question #1: Am I safe? 09:02 Question #2: Am I free to be or am I performing? 12:15 You don’t have to go right away as soon as you realize you’re pretending 12:48 Question #3: Am I honoring my values? 15:54 Question #4: Am I holding back or being held back? 17:52 Question #5: Am I here for the potential and what could be? 20:12 Question #6: Am I the only one trying? 23:22 Question #7: Can I forgive? 24:35 Question #8: Am I being honest? 26:24 Question #9: Am I otherwise fulfilled? 27:56 Question #10: Is there more to learn here? 29:41 Make a decision that serves you best in the long term Like this show? Please leave us a review here - even one sentence helps! Post a screenshot of you listening on Instagram & tag us so we can thank you personally! Achieve success in every area of your life with Jay Shetty’s Genius Community. Join over 10,000 members taking their holistic well-being to the next level today, at https://shetty.cc/OnPurposeGenius

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1:10.7	If you're in a situation where you have to pretend to be someone you're not to make it work,
1:15.6	it's time to go. Hey everyone, welcome back to on purpose. The number one health podcast
1:26.8	in the world. Thanks to each and every one of you, whether you're walking your dog,
1:30.1	cooking, whether you're cleaning, whether you're editing, whatever you're up to, I am so glad
1:35.7	that you are here with me right now. And I can't wait to weaken to on purpose events in person.
1:42.4	I mean, would you come to one of those events? I really hope that you would. I would love
1:46.0	for you to be a part of a live on purpose interview and a live on purpose event. It would be so
1:52.1	exciting to do that. And I'm just counting down the days to weaken to do that again. So there's a
1:58.2	lot to look forward to as part of the on purpose community. You're a big part of that. I see you all
2:03.2	leaving reviews sharing on Instagram. It means the world to me. And I just want to start by saying thank
2:08.4	you. But today's theme is all about the 10 questions to help you know when it's time to go.
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