Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or

clinical and with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Before I get into what I believe are 10 relationship truths, I want to talk to you about my new service

TAT Lab. I'm so excited about this. It's not just that the texting stuff,

it's taking you deeper to give you an in-person,

although online, live experience.

It's group coaching, running groups by my team of therapist and life coaches on all different topics

from relationships to dating to self-esteem to breath work like all of this so imagine like an online wellness center

imagine like like a gym but for your mental and emotional health anyway we'd love

for you to jump in. Just go to my Instagram

at the angry therapist and click my bio link and you will see it there. Okay, here are 10

absolute. I was kind of afraid to say absolute, but I'm going to say it, absolute truths

about relationships. Number one, if you're not making mistakes, you're not taking

enough risks.

No, that doesn't mean cheating by mistakes, quote unquote.

I mean doing things within the boundaries of the relationship

with good intent and then taking responsibility for them if they are not healthy

so without mistakes there is no growth right it's like with anything it doesn't matter if

you're building a relationship or a company you have to make mistakes. No one's perfect. And mistakes doesn't make you defective.

Mistakes make you grow. So this process stimulates growth and change. The glue comes in taking mistakes and making mistakes as a couple.

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