Hi, welcome to the at home podcast and today I'm working with Mark and on his

wife cornered him. He wanted her to give him a break and and believe that she

should take care of her feelings. To be happy he needed her to give him space

and to lovingly connect with him.

And oh my goodness, it was such a privilege working with Mark.

I hope that you enjoy our time together as well.

Welcome to at home.

Mark.

Hello Katie.

Hi Mark, what's going on?

Oh, I love your background with the palm trees. Oh, thank you. I'm in Santa Monica.

Oh, it looks so it looks beautiful. Oh, thank you. Oh, so honey, what's going on? Well, I'm struggling with something again and again, which is coming up. although I did so many works on it, it's still a high intensity

emotion with my partner.

When does it's coming up?

We're in an argument in the evening. It starts about something little and she's

she's driving me into a corner.

It's a old story. I can see it with my mom, but I can see it's a movie and still I'm in it and I'm playing the whole movie

Have you done a worksheet?

Have you done a worksheet? Yes, sure. Let's take a look at that. Sure. Okay, so read number one. So she's

driving me into the corner or she's cornering me. Yeah, she's driving me into the corner, or she's threatening that would also be possible.

Okay, and you're in the kitchen? Yeah, it starts in the kitchen. That's good. Yeah, it starts in the kitchen. It's evening. It's not it's late. It's past 10 p.m. The kids are in the bed. I'm tired from the whole day of work and I want to sleep.

And we start talking about some houseing and

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