Pay attention to your nonverbales. The way you communicate, carry yourself nonverbally,

conveys a ton of information. And in a dating context, we worry so much about how we're going to say

things and not as much about how we're going to act. How you act is important. And so if you start

paying attention to mirroring, you're going to focus more on the information you're conveying.

Are you showing interest and how you're showing interest? And you're also going to be better at picking up on interest

from guys who want to talk to you. Welcome to the Love Strategies podcast, where we help

successful women attract high value men, date with a strategy, and improve their relationships.

Now, whether you're single or dating or in a new relationship, we're here to help you dive into the male mind and

provide raw insights found nowhere else, back by science, psychology, and our own personal

experiences. Your host today are myself, Adam Lodolce, professional dating coach and founder of

Love Strategies, and Dr. Gary Lewandowski, a relationship scientist,

professor, and our head relationship coach here at Love Strategies.

Please share with a friend and enjoy.

Gary, let's start today's podcast going into a little bit of a time machine.

I want to go back about 20 years ago and you can meet the Adam of 20 years ago.

And the thing is, I used to be terrified at the idea of going up and meeting a

woman. Like, I'm telling you, just like, put me in a bathtub full of spiders. I'd rather do that

than meet women. Okay. But I went through this kind of transformational time in my life,

where I really started overcoming those fears. And I started being this kind of transformational time in my life where I really started

overcoming those fears. And I started being more comfortable actually going up and just talking to

someone. But then I had a new challenge. Okay. And the challenges that I happened to be a very

high energy person. So I would come up to a woman and be like, hey, what's going on? And bring so

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