Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your relationship

without your man's conscious effort so you feel desired, taken care of, and special

even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.

I'm Lord Doyle, and today's podcast is about three mistakes wives make trying to get his time and attention.

My guest, Darla's marriage felt like a cold war mixed with moments of peace like a dark novel

The lack of intimacy was excruciating and she didn't know how to break out of it. Then she learned about a secret affair from five years ago when she was a new mom.

But today she feels like she's in love. Her husband flirts with her and the intimacy is great. He told her that he

feels butterflies when he kisses her. She's going to tell us exactly what she

did so you can do it too. Then I'll be giving out the worst

relationship advice of the Week Award which is about how to get your husband to take

out the garbage but this advice should be left at the curb on trash day. All of that's

coming up, but first, let's talk about three mistakes Wives Make trying to get his time

and attention. This is about how to get the

consideration you want the way you want it. Wouldn't it be a wonderful world if

marriage came with an easy to follow instruction manual who's

with me but since it doesn't you bumble along trying out relationship advice you got at

the hair salon or from well-meaning friends and even strangers at

bars. There's a lot of bad relationship advice floating around disguised as

common sense. Maybe that's why so many marriages are falling apart.

Here are three common mistakes that wives like me make to get more time and attention from their husbands.

Number one is pointing out that he's not giving you time and

attention. Isn't it just honest and even important to let your partner know when

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