066 IMPORTANT: Do you want to fix this?

Porn Free Radio

Matt Dobschuetz

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.9 • 672 Ratings

🗓️ 15 March 2016

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

This show resets the vision of Pornfree Radio. If you are new listener feel free to listen to some old shows. If you're a long timer, it's time to have an honest conversation: Do you want to fix this? Do you really want to fix this?

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0:00.0	Porn Free Radio, episode 66.
0:02.7	Hey, this is Matt Dobshoots, and this is the podcast for motivated guys who want to quit looking at porn.
0:09.0	This is where you come to get hope and take action.
0:13.3	And guys, I just want to start the show without any music today.
0:17.7	I don't really want to do my normal format.
0:23.7	I want to talk about a couple of things.
0:31.5	Kind of get them off my chest a little bit. I've been talking to a number of guys in email.
0:39.5	I've been talking to some guys who are considering coaching and I've noticed something. And it's's it's I'm starting to get under my skin a little bit it's a passiveness it is a you know I'm willing to do
0:49.0	some things to get porn free but I'm not really sure that I really want to really pursue this.
0:57.9	And I've noticed it a couple ways.
1:00.1	People sometimes say, hey, I'm interested in really working this out, but I'm kind of busy
1:06.8	right now.
1:08.4	Like somehow, whatever's going on in your work right now, whatever's going on in your
1:14.1	family kind of supersedes your recovery. And that's one thing that always got me into trouble
1:24.1	in my early days. Whenever I just made work the priority or somehow my family obligations
1:32.5	of the priority, what I always ended up reverting to was taking care of myself with pornography
1:37.2	in secret. And so any stress that came from work, any hardship that came in my family, any tough emotions, feelings,
1:46.4	things like that. Whenever they came up, I always went back to the porn. So that's, that's one thing
1:52.4	that's, that's, I've seen is people putting obstacles before their recovery. They're blaming
1:59.0	work. They're blaming their, their, their season of life. That's one thing.
2:03.4	The other thing that I've seen people doing that's really getting under my skin is guys who are
2:11.4	letting fear get in the way. And the way that I see this is it's kind of like, have you ever seen Charlie Brown,
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