Hello, we are together again. I'm Havela Cunnington and this is the Havela Cunnington

podcast and we are going to spend a few minutes talking today about the thing you all like

to ask me the most, which is how do you do what you do? For those of you that don't know who I am,

I am first and foremost a mom of four crazy boys. I am the wife of a fabulous and amazing man

and I am a traveling mommy minister so I travel and teach about three to four times a month as well

as I author and write Bible studies and video Bible studies and drop those about two to three times

a year and so how do we do all that we do? That's the question we get most of our emails and

posts that we get sent to us have that question on them and I'm breaking down a few of the things

that I do often to help me like I've said before these are negotiable. There are things that I do

right now in my life they may change but they're helping me right now function and have the best

life right now. Again, I have to do the thing that helps me function right now and be obedient.

Me being the most obedient, women of God that I'm called to be is going to help me be the most

fulfilled woman on the earth. So again, my yes is going to be different to your yes. My no is going

to be a different no than your no and that's totally okay but I know that we have to have a strong

yes and a strong no to fully function as men and women that are fully empowered. So just

let's sit back and let's just relax and realize that it is okay and that we are not being

mean to have good boundaries. So my second core value that I like to live with and you can write

this down if you like and I'm saying that in a teasing way because this is going to sound a

little funny to you but my second core value that I live by on a daily basis consistently is that

once a week I have a pajama day. Yes, you heard that right. We have a pajama day. Now I don't necessarily

mean that I live in my pajamas that full day but what I mean is that I do not get ready that day.

That means I do not put on my makeup. I do not think about seeing anybody. I lay low for a full day.

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