038 SelfWork (Second Time Around): Kindness Matters
The SelfWork Podcast
Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 10 November 2020
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
I originally wrote this in July of 2016 in the wake of natural disasters, shootings, and tragedies overseas. I’m offering it again to you today with a few nods to what we are going through together as the world faces this pandemic. I wish you all well.
I sat down to write early this morning, and could only think of the many tragedies, caused by humans and by nature, that have been occurring for the last few weeks and months. I felt paralyzed. Broadcasters keep using the term "unprecedented" and they are right. Especially here in the United States, there are few areas where there is not division and unrest.
How could what I have to say matter? Then I remembered a stranger's kindness, and I smiled.
We can always choose kindness.
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We can always choose kindness.
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| 0:00.0 | This is self-work and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. |
| 0:13.0 | At self-work we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world and what to do about them. |
| 0:20.0 | I'm Dr. Margaret and self-work is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today for your own self-work |
| 0:29.3 | Hello and welcome or welcome back to self-work. I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a clinical |
| 0:34.7 | psychologist out of Fayetteville, Arkansas, and the team and I are on a little vacation |
| 0:39.4 | until November the 13th when we'll bring you again an original self-work |
| 0:45.2 | podcast. But I went through the first 100 podcast and picked either ones that were |
| 0:50.8 | some of my own personal favorites or ones that are really very how-to. |
| 0:56.4 | And we'll actually bring you two of them a week. |
| 0:58.7 | Always with the idea of reaching out to those of you who are already comfortable with psychological and emotional issues, |
| 1:04.8 | perhaps you're in therapy, to those of you who have just been diagnosed with something and you're |
| 1:08.8 | looking for answers, or for those of you who wouldn't darken the door of a therapist's office, |
| 1:14.0 | but you might just be curious enough to listen to a podcast like Self-Works. |
| 1:19.0 | So here's the rundown. |
| 1:21.0 | The first will be, Tina Turner takes a seat and that's all about me, actually I'm |
| 1:26.4 | Tina Turner, although that's a little bit hard to believe, but it's all about handling aging gracefully. |
| 1:34.0 | The next is how to learn from a mistake. |
| 1:37.0 | And there's some very basic tips I give you there. |
| 1:40.0 | Then another how-to, the day before Halloween three very practical exercises to |
| 1:47.2 | increase your self-esteem. If you've been listening to self-work for a while you |
| 1:52.2 | know I'm all about what you can do about it and |
| 1:54.4 | so this gets very specific. On the anniversary of perfectly hidden |
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