026: Scared Stiff — The Exposure Model (Part 4)
Feeling Good Podcast | TEAM-CBT - The New Mood Therapy
David Burns, MD
4.6 • 899 Ratings
🗓️ 6 March 2017
⏱️ 45 minutes
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Summary
We begin by describing the three different deaths of the ego that are required for recovery from depression, anxiety, or a relationship conflict, respectively. For depression recovery often results from the "Great Death," A Buddhist concept that involves the discovery that there is no such thing as a "self" that could be worthless, or inferior, or judged by another person. David and Fabrice only touch on this theme and promise an entire future podcast on this fascinating and helpful spiritual notion that can lead to recovery from depression.
For anxiety, the death of the ego is quite different, and involves surrendering to the monster the patient has always feared and avoided using a wide variety of exposure techniques. David traces the origin of Exposure Therapy to teachings in the Buddhist hold scriptures, the Tibetan Book of the Dead, more than 2,000 years ago. David describes the amazing and hilarious phenomenon of "laughing enlightenment," which often happens when anxious individuals confront their fears.
David describes how he used Flooding, an extreme form of exposure, to get over his own blood phobia, which he'd had since childhood. His fear of blood caused him to drop out of medical school at Stanford for a year on two separate occasions. He finally decided to confront his fear by working for a month in the Emergency Room of Highland Hospital, a major trauma treatment center, in Oakland, California. David explains what happened when a totally bloody man on the verge of death was rushed into the ER after a bomb he was building in his basement blew up.
In the podcast David forgot to mention something fascinating about his experience at Highland. David had had a blood phobia since he was child, and blood phobia is thought to have genetic causes, and perhaps be inherited. And yet, David was totally cured in roughly 15 minutes without any medication at all. The important point is that even if things are biologically caused, they can often be treated with psychological techniques.
Most therapists hate the word, "cure." David explains why he sometimes uses this term when treating anxious patients, and also explains the difference between a 100% cure and a 200% cure.
David emphasizes the importance of motivation and resistance in the treatment of anxiety, since few patients, if any, will want to use exposure techniques, because it is so terrifying. David and Fabrice will describe the Motivational Model in the next podcast.
David and Fabrice raise questions about the mechanism of recovery during exposure. Why does it work? Is it due to the change in thinking, or is there some other healing mechanism at work?
Fabrice asks about patients who resist exposure and protest that it won't work. For example, a patient with the fear of heights might say, "Oh, exposure can't possibly help, because every time I get in a situation where I'm exposed to heights, like when I'm in looking over a railing on the third floor of a building or hiking on a mountain trail, I get terrified. This has happened hundreds of times and it never helped!"
Finally, David describes a humorous but real example of his 8-minute treatment of a therapist with 20 years of failed therapy (several times a week of psychoanalysis) for her elevator phobia.
David and Fabrice end by talking about the enormous amount of information they have to share with listeners, including large numbers of creative exposure techniques that fall into three categories:
- Classical Exposure
- Cognitive Exposure
- Interpersonal Exposure
They promise future podcasts describing these fascinating techniques with more amazing vignettes based on patients Dr. Burns has treated, as well as his treatment of his own many fears and phobias!
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome to the Feeling Good podcast. |
| 0:12.4 | I am your host, Fabrice Knight. |
| 0:14.7 | And joining me here in the Murrieta Studios is Dr. David Burns. |
| 0:19.0 | Hi, David. |
| 0:20.0 | Hi, Fabrice. |
| 0:23.8 | Dr. David Burns has been a pioneer in the development of cognitive therapy, and he is the creator of the new team therapy. He is the author of |
| 0:30.2 | Feeling Good, which has sold over 5 million copies in the United States, and has been translated into |
| 0:35.5 | over 20 languages. He is an emeritus adjunct clinical professor of psychiatry at the Stanford University School of Medicine. |
| 0:44.3 | So today we are doing the second model of anxiety treatment and that would be exposure model. how does that work david well exposure |
| 0:59.2 | there's a lot of overlap between team CBT that we're talking about and various forms of |
| 1:07.5 | spirituality and various deaths of the of the ego in recovery from depression or anxiety |
| 1:16.0 | or relationship problems. |
| 1:18.7 | There are three different deaths of the ego. |
| 1:21.7 | And today we'll be talking about the death of the ego that's associated with recovery |
| 1:26.9 | from anxiety disorders. |
| 1:29.6 | So I hope that you're going to tell us more about what you mean by the death of the ego. |
| 1:37.1 | Right. |
| 1:39.0 | Yeah, well, I'll give an example of it, and then before I talk about actual my own personal experiences |
| 1:47.5 | with exposure we can we can talk about it a bit more a session on the death of the |
| 1:53.3 | ego could be a whole podcast in and of itself because it's such an exciting |
| 1:58.0 | topic well I'll tell you what the three deaths of the ego are actually then an exciting topic. |
| 2:05.6 | Well, I'll tell you what the three deaths of the ego are, actually, and maybe to get it started. |
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