Episode 24, when it's not on the radar screen. Welcome back to one extraordinary marriage where we talk about life, love, and the pursuit of intimacy.

You are here with El Lisa de larenzo and Tony

delorenzo and we're tonight we're going to talk about when it's not on the

radar screen. Intimacy that is. But before we get to that there is a lot going on. A lot. A lot this

week. Wow what a week. What a week? We have had craziness.

craziness.

Yeah we had Tony's birthday this past week so it was birthday time and date night

Friday night that was that was an interesting experience You guys know we talked last week about you know being

unplugged and leaving the cell phones at home and really wish the guy that had been

sitting at the table next to us had left his cell phone at home?

Dude, okay so here's a setup you guys. A Lisa it was her month to take the lead which

we've talked about a little bit about and is talked about extensively

in our upcoming book, Stripped down, 13 keys to unlock and intimacy in your marriage.

Take the lead is one month I take the lead on our date night where I set everything up.

I am courting Elisa for that month's date night.

She has no input. I just I just do it and vice versa the

following or the next month it would be a Lisa's turn. Well this was a Lisa's

turn and she surprised me by taking us down to a favorite restaurant

of ours a bull and bear bar and grill in La Hoya that overlooks the cove in the

Pacific Ocean and it's just fantastic.

They have this beautiful patio to die for.

I mean it's two, three blocks away from the water.

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