So when it came to that person, that person, that, at the beginning of a mess, asked the

question, like, who is the most influential person, the most important person in your

life? I wasn't listening to what you answered, so I don't know what you said. My guess is

it's probably like, you know, this particular teacher, this particular coach, maybe a sibling,

maybe a parent, like a mom or dad, that kind of thing, maybe an uncle or aunt who are

deeply invested in you, all these different people in all these different lives right here,

I think all of them likely have something in common with each other. And whether

they were, you're related to them, whether they were, you're not related at all, regardless

of how often you saw each other, my guess is all of them have something in common with

each other. And most likely it is this. All of them are most likely pretty unimpressive.

But I'm not saying that they're not gifted or not talented and remarkable in some way.

But my guess is that every one of their lives, if you step back and looked at their lives,

and every one of those people who was incredibly influential in your life, probably lived pretty

ordinary lives. If you looked at their life, they're probably pretty normal, maybe boring,

but pretty much unimpressive. Maybe step back and got away from like the impact they

made on your life, you would look at their lives and say, well, what did their day filled

up with picking up the kids, maybe getting groceries, you know, running errands, cleaning

the dishes, replacing toilet paper roll, like this, just carving out time, carving out time

prepare, making it through mass, you know, especially if they have kids like making it through

mass, that kind of idea that in so many ways, most likely the course of those people, that

person who is most influential in life, the course of their day, looks massively unimpressive.

It's an important person who has changed your life, most of their life most likely looks

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