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The Mark Groves Podcast

#019: Why My Girlfriend Was Always Angry With Me with Bryan Reeves

The Mark Groves Podcast

Mark Groves

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.95K Ratings

🗓️ 1 April 2019

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Bryan Reeves is our guest this week and I am so excited to introduce you to a man who has truly lived a life of adventure and exploration. Bryan and I discuss his journey, from hyper-masculine army careerist, to wandering the Earth, and later to being a relationship and life coach. Bryan talks us through the journey that broke his heart, opened his heart and totally renewed his joy for life. Bryan and Mark go DEEP on all things masculinity this week. Why did Bryan’s girlfriends always end up frustrated and angry with him? Why do men follow Instagram models and damage their relationships with online behaviour? How can childhood emotional neglect - even the most subtle forms - play out in our adult lives? And what about our triggers, how can triggers from previous relationships or previous lives continue to impact our current partners. Mark and Bryan discuss the challenges that every couple is bound to face. Episode highlights: 6:00 - The journey from army career to relationship coach. 9:30 - Finding the subject that ‘lit’ me up 10:30 - Why are the women I am in relationship with always angry at me? 15:00 - Instagram and the online world affecting relationships. 22:00 - Childhood emotional neglect - how can the most subtle forms affect our adult life? 28:00 - What triggers us in our parents, what does this reflect in us? 49:00 - Therapy, coaches and relationships, the value of working with someone from outside of our relationship. 51:00 - Triggers from past, childhood and their influence in current situations. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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0:00.0

Welcome to a new episode of the Mark Groves podcast.

0:11.4

I am, I'm overly excited.

0:15.2

I'm overly excited.

0:16.1

I'm normally excited, but I'm actually overtly,

0:19.4

overtly and overly.

0:20.7

Yeah, overtly and overly. Yeah, and both of those. I added a T and without the T. Feeling it. Yeah, you can feel it. I feel it, man. I even appreciate how you, we're wearing the same hat. No one can see that. Yeah, but just take our word for it, right? The voice you hear is none other than brian reeves brian with a why thank you

0:40.5

that right i know um i've had the pleasure of being on brian's podcast uh one time and then two times

0:48.2

that's right they're not public yet by the time this comes out they might be i won't have been i don't

0:53.2

think but either way.

0:54.3

Maybe once, but yeah. I mean, Brian, I've known you for about, what, seven years. And in that time, I mean, I've read a lot of your work. Brian's an amazing writer. I've seen you speak a couple times. You're an amazing speaker too. Thank you. I think you're just really great at articulating and taking emotional concepts and simplifying

1:16.7

them or at least making them consumable.

1:19.2

Yeah.

1:19.6

Thank you.

1:20.4

I don't know what job description you have.

1:23.7

You know, you know what I realized what it is?

1:26.1

I'm good at making maps, drawing maps. I'm a map maker. You know, you know what I realized what it is, I'm good at making maps, drawing maps. I'm a

1:29.0

map maker, you know, drawing a map of human dynamics, relationship dynamics, or taking what other

1:37.0

people are, are trying to articulate and translate, translating that into a map that we can then

1:43.6

find ourselves and say, oh, okay, I'm here.

1:47.1

And if I want to get there, if you want to get to New York and you don't know where you're standing right now,

1:54.2

you have no idea which direction to point yourself in.

1:58.0

That's absolutely true, especially if the maps you were given previously or for Chicago,

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