Hello, everybody. What's going on? It's Jesse Lee, call me hashtag boss Lee or the people's mentor in today's episode

170 of the show and I want to talk about how life is happening for you not to you because I've heard this conversation

for the first time when I was in Las Vegas and I saw Tony Robbins and I saw where he changed my life in three hours

And I just feel like I want to share all of this with each and every single one of you because I think it's an important

Life lesson that changed so much for me as I developed into the leader the woman the person

That I am today and as I look through my life and as I look through things that happen whether that's something positive something negative or something

Indifferent I always look I always feel like I train on in a lot too

But I always like to look at those circumstances at those moments and say oh my gosh. Thank God that this is happening

For me and so it's nice to say I mean this is

It's not nice. There's no dice way to say this right like life sometimes sucks

Sometimes you are going through it and some of you right now

There's no way just based off of how many of you listen to the show

There's no way that there are not very real things that a lot of you are probably going through right now

There's probably a lot of stuff a lot of drama a lot of hardship a lot of heartbreak a lot of disappointments that are going on in your life

And it can sometimes feel like life is almost against us right it can feel like people are out to

Screw us over it can feel like why is this happening to me?

And if you have ever felt like that I just want to let you know you're not alone

I think that's part of the human edition

If you've ever been like why can't I catch a break if that's where you are right now

I just encourage you to take a deep breath

Give yourself some grace and understand that I swear to you. This is happening for your greater good

I promise you I know it might not feel like it right now

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