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🗓️ 17 January 2023
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Look when I was young and wild, I was the king of going out with crazy chicks. But here's the thing, I was to fix others because I didn't know how to fix myself. Self-sabotaging any chance I had to become a better version of myself.
Make no mistake, we all self-sabotage. It shows up by us trying to fix others, turning to vices, or neglecting our health in an attempt to feel better.
In this episode, I discuss the real reason why we all self-sabotage and what you can do to break the cycle.
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0:00.0 | You don't have to have this 1.0 version. You don't have to have this victim mentality. You don't |
0:03.9 | have to go around telling everybody your sad story of what happened to you and why you're this way. |
0:09.6 | You can go and rewrite the story. You can grab the pen back from the hands of the abusers, |
0:15.6 | of the bullies, of those that created limiting beliefs, and you could rewrite the story yourself |
0:22.6 | in all the blank pages that exist in your book of life. |
0:26.2 | Welcome to the Bedro's Coolean Show. |
0:46.3 | Guys, I was the king of dating crazy chicks. In fact, I was the king of dating crazy chicks. |
0:51.5 | I was the king of sabotaging my work. I got fired from more jobs than I wished to admit. |
0:57.3 | And then I was the king of eating away all my emotions. When I would get stressed and overwhelmed |
1:02.2 | and emotional, I would just eat. And I want to talk to you guys about this one crazy chick that I |
1:07.6 | dated just to prove to you how self-sabotaging I was. Let's just say her name was Jennifer. Man, |
1:17.2 | this chick was so freaking nuts. We're going back like 23, 24 years, well before I was married. |
1:27.2 | And this chick was so nuts, which is for some reason, the nutter they were, the more I was attracted |
1:33.6 | to them, which really says something about a guy, by the way, if you're not evolved, you're not |
1:39.2 | self-developed, you're going to go and look for broken people to save. And that's in hindsight, |
1:44.9 | I realized what I was doing. But man, this chick was a mess, bro. And for some reason, I was |
1:50.4 | attracted to the crazier nutter your chicks. They were like, if they would kill my cat and then |
1:54.1 | punch a hole in my tire and then light my apartment on fire, I would be into them, right? And then |
1:59.7 | I'd be like, man, why am I with this crazy chick? Well, it's because I devalued myself and I |
2:03.9 | didn't have any self-worth. And when you don't have self-worth and you devalue yourself and you |
2:08.1 | try and then fix others instead of trying to fix yourself, that's what happens. But this chick |
2:12.5 | Jennifer, within the first week of dating her, we went to some like local pub. It was like a pool hall. |
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