Welcome everybody to the adult chair. I'm Pete Wright and I'm here once again

with Michelle Shalalfont.

Happy Valentine's Week Pete.

Oh, happy Valentine's Week to you.

Thank you.

Do you, do you, are you guys, you and your kind and heroic spouse.

Do you woo one another successfully

on Valentine's Week?

Is that kind of a tradition?

He just created some anxiety for me because I'm thinking, oh my God, what am I doing with him?

You know what? That part of my brain does not work that well the gift giving part I like

shuts down I get so stressed I never know what to get for people but I'm good dialoguing

and writing really beautiful

and gift giving me. I try so hard, but I overthink it. I immediately think well whatever

my gut would tell me this person would love is probably not enough.

Right, exactly.

And I need to put it away and find something perfect.

And the problem is because I have people in my, my kids' godfather is the most unbelievable gift giver.

They're not expensive, they're not like, they're just perfect.

They're perfect.

Everything he gives to everyone is perfection. And that sets a bar that is so hard to live up to.

I totally have someone like that in my life too and it stresses me out.

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