Welcome to one extraordinary marriage. You're here tonight with Alisa de larenzo and Tony de larenzo and we're here to talk to you about life, love and the pursuit of intimacy in your marriage.

Thank you, Alisa.

Thought he had somewhere to go with that.

Apparently not.

So a little bit about us, some of you are just tuning into us for the first time

and actually were tuning into us for the first time.

So we'd like to fill you in a little bit about who we are and

where we've been and why we're on the air. That's right. First things first.

Elisa and I've been married 13 years. We have two adorable kids.

Most of the time. Most of the time, yes. And tonight what we really want to be talking about is why we have felt led to talk about marriage.

So a little bit of background in August of 2008 Tony and I were preparing to lead a small

group in our church here in San Diego on intimacy we were actually going to be

using the book Intimacy Ignited.

And about a month before that study started, we were preparing some material and came across a clip online of two couples who had attempted one to be intimate for 365 nights and the other

for 101 nights.

And I could not believe these women actually, one gave it to her husband as a

birthday present for his 40th birthday and the other one just said yes to a hundred

and one nights and I thought these women are nuts and I was jumping up and down for joy to tell everybody.

Interesting to watch this online and

and just sort of see these couples and what they had done was very interesting in my mind.

Yeah, for me not so much and so I just turned off the computer thinking that was the end of it until the the

fateful question as we joke about. Yes that that evening while Elisa and I were getting ready for bed and I was reading a book I did pop the question to

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