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The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Zoom Out Parenting: The Mindset Shift Every Overwhelmed Parent Needs

The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Health & Fitness, Kids & Family, Parenting

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 June 2025

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Summary

Is parenting starting to feel like one giant checklist you’re constantly failing? In this episode, I introduce a powerful mindset shift called Zoom Out Parenting, a way to ditch the guilt, the hyper-tracking, and the unrealistic expectations that make modern parenting feel overwhelming. From picky eating to screen time guilt, wake windows to milestone anxiety, I explore why we spiral into perfectionism and how to step back and focus on what actually matters. You’ll learn: What Zoom Out Parenting really means Why zooming in too closely fuels guilt and anxiety Real-life examples of how to reframe everyday parenting struggles The one question that can stop a parenting spiral in its track We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Welcome & Episode Intro 01:05 – Why We Need to Zoom Out 02:18 – What Zooming Out Really Means 03:06 – When Tracking Becomes Hypervigilance 04:04 – Guilt, Control, and Letting Go 05:05 – Zoom In vs. Zoom Out: Real Parenting Examples 08:03 – Development Is a Landscape, Not a Checklist 09:20 – The Cost of Always Zooming In 09:56 – Tips to Reframe in Real Time 10:39 – Zooming Out Isn’t Denial—It’s Clarity 11:03 – Intentional Parenting Over Perfect Parenting 11:43 – Final Thoughts & Takeaway Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

Welcome to the show. It's me, Dr. Mona, your trusted pediatrician, confidant, and mom friend,

0:05.6

here to support you through every twist and turn of parenting. You're listening to the Peds Doc Talk

0:10.2

podcast where I host honest conversations that empower your parenting journey. Before we continue,

0:15.2

make sure to subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts and download this episode. That is the most

0:19.9

useful metric for our show. And if you're

0:22.5

watching on YouTube, hit that subscribe button. So today, I'm doing a solo episode and we're zooming out

0:29.3

on parenting. Yes, I said it, zoom out parenting. I know, just what the world needs, right? Another

0:35.7

parenting label. But hear me out. This isn't a

0:38.7

style. It's a lens. It's a shift in how we talk to ourselves to our kids and about our kids.

0:43.7

Because parenting isn't about doing it all perfectly. It's about doing it all with perspective.

0:49.7

When I first became a mom and as a pediatrician working with families every day, I saw it constantly.

0:55.1

Parents drowning in minutia, the ounces, the wake windows, the poop logs, the nap trackers, the milestone checklist.

1:01.1

It was like parenting had turned into one big standardized test.

1:05.5

And spoiler alert, no one was passing.

1:08.2

Then recently, I was at a brand event in New York City and we were talking about screen time after two years of age.

1:13.7

And the vibe in the room, familiar, guilt, worry, second guessing. I let them use a screen while I took a meeting. Am I a bad mom now?

1:23.0

And that's when I thought, yeah, we still need this. And yes, I know what you're thinking.

1:29.5

Just what the world needs. Another parenting philosophy. A new hashtag to add to our bio,

1:34.6

hashtag, gentle parenting, hashtag, conscious parenting, hashtag, positive parenting, hashtag,

1:39.8

Montessorish, but make it modern parenting. And now, Zoom Out Parenting. But hear me out, whether

1:45.4

you're buried in sleep logs, worried about how much screen time your toddler had today, or just trying

1:49.9

to keep your cool through another meal or beige food, this episode is for you. Let's take a deep breath,

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