BBC Sounds, Music, Radio, Podcasts Hello, I'm Anita Rani and welcome to Woman's

Hour from BBC Radio 4. Good morning, welcome to Woman's Hour on Friday,

the 19th February 2021. Why is the date significant? Well, simply because it's the only one we're

going to have, so let's make the most of it. Calling all new parents out there, here's

a question for you. Do you feel good enough? Well, it's how child psychologist and pediatrician

DW Winnicott says, parents should feel good enough. But what did he mean? 50 years since his

death, I'll be finding out why his thoughts and advice on parenthood are still relevant.

But this morning, I'd like to hear the best and worst advice you were given as a young

mum. You can text me on 84844, let's share wisdom across the airwaves today. You can

message via Twitter and Instagram, it's at BBC Woman's Hour and of course you can email

us via our website. And the tweets are coming in already. Aberdeen Quinney says, that good

enough is good enough, she says, although I didn't find that out until I put myself and

my family through several years of trying to entay, attain impossible perfection. Don't

fret about the bits you did less, less than perfectly. Congratulate yourself on those bits

you did when you were bloody brilliant, she says. And here's a tweet from Dr. Reverend

Hoolie, who says, the best advice from an elderly midwife was, you can't feed the baby

until you've had breakfast. A.K.A. look after yourself, keep your thoughts coming in.

Now my mum had her vaccine this week, which was a huge relief for me. But there's still

worryingly a very slow uptake of the vaccine from ethnic minority communities. Last night,

you may have seen it, a TV campaign was played out across all the major broadcasters at the

same time to encourage people to get vaccinated. But why the mistrust? Are you having a problem

convincing your parents or grandparents or maybe you don't want to take it? Get in touch

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