Yvonne & The Jealous Projecting Narcissist | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

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Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 29 July 2024

⏱️ 104 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Yvonne shares her story of dating a jealous & controlling abuser. Yvonne thought she met the man of her dreams. He was charming, chivalrous, and a former firefighter. He made Yvonne feel safe. However, lurking below 'Dr. Jekyl's' persona, was the 'Mr. Hyde' waiting to appear. Once Yvonne was trauma-bonded to her ex, the roller coaster of abuse began, and it became challenging for her to leave for good. It's a story of jealousy, self worth, manipulation, double standards, bread crumbing, triangulation, trauma bonds, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, sexual assault, financial abuse, animal abuse, moving goal posts, being good enough, addiction, triangulation, gaslighting, infidelity, lies, isolation, rage, Jekyl & Hyde, victim playing, blame shifting, circular conversations, control, accusations, belittling, kernels of truth, feeling rushed, hoovering, and intermittent reinforcement. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, suicidal ideation, sexual assault, financial abuse, and animal abuse. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:32.3	narcissist apocalypse we talk with an abuse survivor named evan andvonne was in an abusive relationship with a jealous projecting abuser.
0:42.2	It's a story of self-worth, manipulation, double standards, breadcrumming, triangulation, and trauma bonds.
0:51.2	Music and trauma bonds.
1:19.5	Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone. I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Yvonne. How are you?
1:29.7	I'm doing really well, Brandon. Thank you. Well, thank you, Yvonne, for being here. And if you want to be a guest like Yvonne is today,
1:36.7	please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com and click the guest form button at the top of the page.
1:41.9	There you can read all of our instructions, and please do read them, and either send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse at gmail.com or if I let our guest
1:45.1	form and press the submit button and please do send it in the format that we ask for. And we have a
1:51.6	content warning for this episode as we do discuss physical abuse, sexual assault, and suicidal
1:57.3	ideation in this episode. We also do discuss animal abuse as well, so that is your
2:03.7	content warning for today. And today you're going to hear Yvonne's story, and it's one of
2:09.9	never being good enough and moving goalposts, trying to be what the abuser wants you to be,
2:15.5	and then being raged at or finding fault no matter
2:19.7	what about you and then somehow using everything against you.
2:24.6	Just a very confusing place to be.
2:26.9	So a big thank you to Yvonne for being here and now I'm going to get out of my way and
2:32.1	your way.
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