Rerelease: The Manipulation Tactics of a Controlling Abuser | Narcissistic Abuse

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🗓️ 2 August 2024

⏱️ 49 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon talks about the manipulation tactics an abuser uses to gain control, isolate you, and erode your sense of self. Plus they discuss, triangulation, threats, physical abuse, intimidation, flying monkeys, fear, obligation, guilt, the divide & conquer technique, arguments, word salad, sleep deprivation, minimization, justification, reasoning, gaslighting, accusations, cheating, projection, blame shifting, beliefs, nitpicking, stonewalling, and much more. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] f you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at [email protected] To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS: Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here Something Was Wrong | Click Here When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:29.9	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, we talk about the manipulation tactics and
0:36.7	abuser uses to gain control, isolate you, and erode your sense of self.
1:08.0	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone.
1:18.1	I am Brandon Chadwick, And today, it's just me. It's just me by myself. And I hope everyone enjoys this episode. Today, we are going to be discussing controlling manipulation and abuse tactics that erode oneself and how
1:33.2	these tactics are built to question your reality and to isolate you.
1:40.5	And I put together this document that I think eventually I'll be putting on our website.
1:50.2	And I think I put it all in the correct order.
1:54.6	It's an interesting kind of document to look at things.
2:00.2	And I thought I'd share it with everyone today and help people see things that maybe they weren't seeing and understand why these tactics, these controlling manipulation and abuse tactics are used.
2:17.1	And to give some examples throughout the whole
2:19.6	entire episode today as well. So I want to thank everyone for listening and I hope I do this
2:27.4	justice. It's doing an episode by yourself isn't easy. And whoever does a podcast where it's just them, it's not an easy thing to do.
2:37.8	And kudos to whoever that is.
2:39.1	I'm sure a lot of people listening have their own shows.
2:41.5	So before I begin, if you want to be a guest on our Survivor Story show, please do go
2:50.3	to Narcissistapocalypse.com.
2:52.6	Top of the page, there's a button that says guest form.
2:55.2	You click on that button.
2:56.4	It takes you to our guest form page.
2:58.3	There's a lot of instructions there, everyone.
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