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As a parent, do you ever wish someone could just whisper some realistic and trust

worthy support in your ear and not make you feel awful for not having all the answers?

Well, that's what I'm here for. I'm Dr. Alisa Pressman, developmental psychologist,

parent educator, clinical professor, and I'm a mom. My goal is to make your parenting journey

less overwhelming and a lot more joyful. Please join me every Friday for new episodes

of Raising Good Humans.

Welcome to Press Send. I'm Shanae Alexander, and this is the podcast where you send in your

questions and we attempt to give you our best advice. And today, we have a really special episode.

My friend, Ellity, who has been through the trenches of the wedding industry with me

is here. And we are answering all of your wedding slash event, but mostly wedding questions.

Ellity, I'm so happy you're here. Thank you so much for having me. I'm thrilled to be here.

Oh, also, Ellity has a way better accent than me. Way better. Like much more pleasant to listen

to than a grating American accent. So I've told it's calming. Oh, but I mean, I feel like

actually probably that's like a secret strength as a planner. I feel like I'm like, you probably

always sound like you know what that you're doing and also you're like a calm energy.

I'll take it. Yeah. So Ellity and I on background, I used to plan wedding, I used to plan

events with my own company and plan weddings through a company called Bella Fair. Ellity,

and I never planned a wedding from start to finish together, but you did assist me on many

weddings and you've done many of your own. What do you think is the most like what was the

budgets you worked within just so people have like a sense? Definitely. So I think it would kind of

be within sort of the 40K would be sort of the entry level up to 170. Right. Right. And then

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