As we've aged into marriage more and more.

Great. We're just going to go.

I think it is, you get so much more familiar with one another that it's easier and it's scary how

easy and quick you can be with your tongue in how cutting you can be or how encouraging you can be.

Right? Like because you know someone so well, it's so easy for you to either abstain from even saying

something which is another form of just of not using your tongue, right? We're going to go through

James today. James 3, I believe the first section and talk about what it means and why we should be

taming our tongue and how it pertains to marriage. Let's do it. Okay, we'll see you on the other side.

Young married person, whether you're watching this listening to this, whether you're a husband or a

wife, I think the most dangerous time verbally for a young couple is going to be whenever that

honeymoon phase fades from that moment that it's faded and you realize, okay, I mean, I mean,

like the Twitter patient has gone like this is just real life. You've realized your spouse is human.

No, they're not, they're not perfect. You've realized that you're not a perfect spouse. From that moment

until you mature to the point where you understand what James is saying in James chapter 3 here,

that's going to be the most dangerous time in your marriage verbally speaking, verbally speaking,

how does that? Verbally speaking, slightly redundant. And so our hope here,

I don't think it's redundant. Just sleep it. So our hope here is that we would accelerate that

that understanding. So that time period between when you realize that your marriage that you're

you know, you're not perfect to the point where you understand your words of powerful because

in that moment, I think is when you have the opportunity to be really cutting toward one another,

wives, you know, we're going to talk a little bit about like sins of aggression, sins of

festivity that might crop up in the area of speech to one another. Yeah. But wives can tend to kind of

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