Okay, so when I wrote this blog post years ago, I said above there,

Hey, this example might be a little bit crude because it is and what I was talking about was a quick way of seeing your spouse as your

Standard of beauty. Anyway, in the comments this guy said he said, it's not crude. It's meaningless. It's a meaningless mind game absent of value.

Hey, but if it helps you, then I'm all for it.

It's super patronizing sort of way.

Anyway, I got a little bit spicy with him and I said, Mike, I disagree.

It's choosing to focus on all that is good in your wife and propping her up as the ultimate beauty in your life.

I'd argue that following media's imposed definitions of beauty more likely constitutes a quote unquote meaningless mind game absent of value.

Oh snap. I'm not the inish man's whole career.

What could I'm not a rock? What career?

Bam, bat, bat, bat, boom, pow.

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I think this is probably one of the posts that got a lot of traction for us kind of early on and then

you definitely got some, you know, some pushback or some encouragement.

Well, I think it hits on a felt need right? So people, they have this constant tension between,

hey, I'm supposed to be, you know, always attracted to my wife or to my husband, no matter what, but I always,

but I feel this constant pull away from him or her because, you know, there's this idea of beauty and

I see the same person day in and day out. Right. She, he or she is aging or life's happening and

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