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ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

Your Self-Worth is Not Your Net Worth | Audrey Bellis

ChooseFI | Financial Independence Podcast

Jonathan Mendonsa & Brad Barrett | Choose FI Media, Inc

Business, Careers, Investing

4.85.2K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2020

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A single mom turned entrepreneur found herself staring at a broken engagement and wondering how to build wealth while raising a child alone in one of the most expensive areas of the country—then she discovered that the real obstacle wasn't her income or her zip code. Audrey's story challenges the assumption that financial independence requires a partner, a six-figure salary, or perfect circumstances. Working in tech and launching her own businesses, she shares the pivotal realization that shifted everything: self-worth had to come before net worth. From negotiating bills to tracking every dollar, her journey offers concrete strategies for anyone facing uphill financial battles, especially single parents navigating high-cost living and limited margin for error. Timestamps & Key Topics [00:00:53] Community and Background Introduction to Audrey's background as a single mom in a high-cost living area. [00:02:51] Audrey's Journey to Self-Employment Transition from a broken engagement to self-employment in tech and entrepreneurship. [00:04:11] Financial Mindset and Resilience The importance of self-worth in financial decisions, leading to the mantra: "You cannot raise your net worth until you raise your self-worth." [00:06:34] Challenges Facing a Single Mom The difficulties of managing responsibilities as a single parent. [00:10:10] The Importance of Self-Worth Refusing to be a victim and taking charge of financial circumstances. [00:12:56] Key Quote "Raise your self-worth to elevate your net worth." [00:16:12] Maintaining a Good Credit Score Essential tips on the importance of a good credit score for financial options. [00:20:03] Negotiating Bills and Expenses Real-life examples of successfully negotiating lower bills and interest rates. [00:38:34] Budgeting and Financial Planning Tracking expenses, the "big three" budgeting categories, and actionable budgeting tips. [00:35:37] Future Goals and Home Ownership Plans to negotiate rent and the aspiration to buy a home. [00:50:44] Overcoming Challenges Focus on growth and resilience when facing life's challenges. [00:51:38] Conclusion Key Takeaways Enhance Your Self-Worth: Focus on personal development to positively impact your finances. [00:12:56] Track Every Penny: Ensure every dollar is accounted for to identify savings opportunities. [00:38:34] Negotiate Everything: Always ask for better rates or programs with service providers. [00:20:03] Notable Quotes "Every $100 a month in savings is $30,000 less that you need to reach financial independence." [00:47:12] "What can I do with this? How am I going to get up from it?" [00:50:44] "I did everything right." [00:09:50]

Transcript

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0:00.0

Your listening to Choose FI Radio.

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The blueprint for financial independence lives here.

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If you're looking to unlock the secrets to financial independence and early retirement,

0:25.4

you're in the right place.

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Stay tuned and join a community of like-minded people who are getting all fans to hear and

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taking control of their lives in the pursuit of financial independence.

0:36.3

Choose FI, your home for financial independence online.

0:43.2

Hello everybody, very excited to hop back into our case study series and recognize that

0:56.6

this community, the financial independence community, encompasses everybody.

0:59.9

They may not realize it yet.

1:01.2

They may not have had that epiphany that financial independence is something worth pursuing.

1:05.7

But everybody wants this and people from all walks of life are pursuing this, but we have

1:10.0

to recognize that people are doing this from different stages in their walk of life.

1:13.7

And they're having to do this with various obstacles that they've been handed.

1:16.7

Today, we're speaking with Audrey.

1:18.4

And Audrey is a single mom.

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She's working in tech.

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She lives in a high cost living area.

1:23.2

And specifically during this pandemic, I mean, it's a trying time.

1:27.3

Having said that, what she's been able to accomplish up to this point is truly incredible

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and inspirational.

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And we are honored to get the opportunity to kind of dive into our numbers, pull out some

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