Your reminder to stop settling in your dating life and to love yourself first.

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 2.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 August 2024

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

In full transparency, I recorded this episode back in July when I was still dating someone who I thought could be someone significant in my life. Although that relationship has recently ended, I still wanted to share this episode because everything I'm saying still holds the same truth to it - which is your reminder to never settle for basic behaviors in relationships. To experience someone who makes a genuine effort to see you, to spend time with you, and to focus on you - is what everyone deserves.

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0:00.0	So I celebrated the 4th of July yesterday with this new British man that I met and I mentioned him on the last episode because I think for the first time in my life I'm
0:17.6	approaching dating so differently where I'm coming from a place of genuine
0:21.8	self-acceptance peace, self-love,
0:24.7	independence. I know exactly what I'm looking for. I know exactly what I want in a
0:29.0	person and to experience it and have it be brought to life in my reality, I guess you could say, is so
0:38.4	fucking crazy. And it almost feels like I manifested this person out of thin air.
0:44.5	I don't want to go into the details too much because it's still so new
0:50.2	but at the same time this is my life this is my podcast I guess I could do what I want and I know you guys want all the tea and want everything
0:58.5	going on in my dating life so I am going to talk about it simply because I just want to inspire people if you are
1:07.6	settling if you're going through a situation ship or you're talking to someone
1:11.7	that is barely giving you anything and you're still
1:14.3	chasing down someone that isn't treating you the way that you know you deserve to be
1:18.7	treated. Use this as a source of inspiration, okay? I am your example. I am living proof that if someone really
1:30.5	wants to be with you, they will be with you. If someone really wants to make
1:33.4	a plan with you, they will. If they want to, they would. And I really struggled with this concept
1:41.6	of if he wanted to, he he would because it was so viral it was
1:45.1	so viral and there was so many people saying this on Tik-Tok oh if he doesn't do
1:50.7	this for you he doesn't like you if he doesn't do that for you, he doesn't like you. If he doesn't do that for you, he's not interested.
1:55.0	And while a lot of these scenarios
1:57.2	that I was watching on Tik-Tok were true,
1:59.4	I feel like in my head I was kind of like, well, it could go either way.
2:03.8	Everyone goes through shit.
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